I have a fear of sleeping over @ my friends houses. I am 12. I used 2 love it, but about a year ago, I started *hating* it, and getting homesick. I have turned down a million sleepovers lately.
Anyways---I am going to a party on saturday evening, and afterwards the girl asked me 2 sleep over. Should I?
I want to, but I hate getting homesick in front of a bunch of people! And just homesick in general.
Should I just suck it up & go?
2007-04-05 15:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe you sense some danger or have a good reason to be worried about sleeping over at friends' houses. What do your parents think?
2007-04-05 15:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable you won't have fun. You should try to suck it up but, if you are truly going to be homesick, you should just stay home. If you go and you get all mopey and sad your friends will be confused as to why you don't like hanging out with them.
When I was twelve I wanted to get out of my house, so you are lucky to be so comfortable at home.
Is there something else about sleeping over that you are afraid of?
2007-04-05 15:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do that which will make you most comfortable. Is there a REAL reason that makes you feel uncomfortable, or is it just percieved 'shyness' that is holding you back. Have no worries at your age, there will be many opportunities for you to accept when the time is right.Do not do it because of peer pressure, as that is never a solid reason. Always follow your good instincts, and always be happy at whatever you do. It is possible you are not ready for that experience just yet.
2007-04-05 16:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by PAUL A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww hun, I am the SAME WAY TOO!! If you like her, then go ahead. Then make sure your parents know that you are sometimes not comfortable sleeping over. If yo are misrable, have a secret phrase which means "i ahte this, pick me up" mine is did ___ call? or did I get that letter? or something like that. Good luck & HAV FUN!!
2007-04-05 16:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly Taylor 49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go. Bring some things with you that remind you of home like a picture of your family, a blanket you love, or something that smells like home like your mom's perfume or a candle. The best way to get overy anxiety is to try to deal with the thing that makes you anxious.
2007-04-05 15:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First to procure to make your recommendations up what it fairly is you concern approximately it. Then, address an attempt to do away with this concern. bypass get a knife, use it to decrease up foodstuff or to decrease issues. carry it up on your person throat. what's frightening approximately it??? no longer something. What you may concern are those idiots that play jokes by potential of protecting it up on your throat or are performing like they are going to decrease you. that's like that saying with the weapons. Knives do no longer kill human beings, stupid those with knives do.
2016-10-21 03:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're growing up and have realized you're immortal. The safest place to be is home.
Don'r worry it'll pass and you'll feel "Safe" again. It's part of growing up.
2007-04-05 16:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Amy Beware 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they ya friendz you should stay ova there. trust me you gonna have some fun.
2007-04-05 15:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by greatness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋