I had access to my husbands sprint account and found another phone line. I called it and another woman answered the phone. Thats the night my husband didn't come home. I asked the woman who she was and I told her who I was. She refused to tell me, told me to grow up and hung up on me. Iam 32 years old with a 9 and 2 yr old, full time worker. I swear to God in the past 4 years of my marriage I've been faithful. I would never cheat on my husband. He finally told me he got a phone for someone else for money because I wouldn't give him any money for bills. I don't think he has another child because he is at home every night. Its just when the weather gets warm he starts going out and this has been going on for 4 years. Iam his winter time wife, and Iam tired. Its hurts because we bought a house in Oct 2006 and remodeling and we havent even moved in yet. He is saying now he is going to take back some of the stuff because he is broke.How can you be broke and still go out of town?
2007-04-05 15:04:08 · 9 answers · asked by madblackwoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would have to be his full time wife or none at all, sorry but I have never liked sharing the man I love and was married too. If this is the way you want to live the rest of your life that is fine, but for most people it wouldn't. If he is broke how does he go out? He's not making any sense, but he thinks your buying it, also no, I don't believe that cheating because he is makes it right.
2007-04-05 15:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with previous posters...sounds like a double life to me. He may have a whole other family which is why the woman told you to "grow up" when you told her who you were. It is sad, but I know that it has happened at least a few times...best wishes.
2007-04-05 17:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His excuse is bogus.....Sounds to me like he is keeping company of this other woman. You need to find out. You may have to borrow a good friends car or you and the friend follow him to see where he is going when he starts heading out. But you need to find out who this other woman is, and why he bought her a phone? I think he is cheating.
2007-04-05 16:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to investigate your husband now. Find out what is really happening. I have been where you are and it turned out he was having a long term affair. You need to protect what you have and keep him from spending on someone else.
2007-04-05 15:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jodi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound like a marraige! He need to get himself together or you will forever wonder and be hurt. Take Care
2007-04-05 15:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is cheating, sounds like before the last 4 years you had cheated... really sorry you have such a Crappy marriage...
2007-04-05 15:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he is either living a double life, or has some more serious issues going on, like multiple personality disorders.... good luck to you.
2007-04-05 15:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by angela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is not telling you the truth ask him what is going on
2007-04-05 15:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by sweetnsour 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a sad name you have chosen for yourself......
2007-04-05 15:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋