She cannot remember anyone she had sex with no detail except they did it. Even two affairs she had . Is this as strange as it sounds
2007-04-05 14:08:38 · 29 answers · asked by michael g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she has what is called selective memory. She only remembers what she wants to and when she wants to.
2007-04-05 14:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not at all strange. First of all, do you really want to know the details. I'm sure she remembers, but is looking out for you by NOT sharing details. It can also depend on how old you both are. If it was 15 years ago, maybe she really doesn't remember.
2007-04-05 14:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by smb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there Sweetie does she forget your name too? or forget to feed the kids or something... She is lieing to you to make you feel better about what is going on.. We can suffer from short term, long term, temporary or permanent memory loss.. But we can not suffer from sexual memory loss, not happening, if that was the case we would all be loving life right about now.. Tell her to let the damn skeletons out of her closet and move on with her life, she is not lieing to anyone but herself when she says them things cause you are not stupid and you are catching on...
If that dont work get her real real drunk and keep asking her over and over again.. it will get the truth out, cause she will lie so many times she wont remember and the more you question the better it will get...
Be careful and good luck
2007-04-05 14:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago was her "first time"? Maybe it was just really bad / boring --- nothing to remember? Was she drugged? Might sound ridiculous to ask - but believe me, it happens...
Ask her about the time YOU and SHE have had sex - if she recalls the details of your sex life - then just don't sweat it --
She just might not want to discuss her past - feels funny about it or whatever --- if you believe you two have a healthy physical relationship then don't dwell on her past...
Just my 2 cents :-)
2007-04-05 14:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by tired03456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife doesn't want to discuss her ex-lovers with you. She is afraid of opening up an uncomfortable can of worms. Leave it alone. I would be more concerned about the two affairs!!
2007-04-05 14:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by BROWNIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she can't remember anyone/any incidents, then she's either lying or she was drunk, stoned, etc (to the point of losing her memory) **every single time**...so, does she have a serious substance abuse problem? If so, get her some help. If not, then she's lying to you.
2007-04-05 15:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that for whatever reason she is too ashamed to admit what she remembers. The only other thing I can think of is if she is alcoholic and was in a black out?
2007-04-05 14:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Theresa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It means that she doesn't care about any of those guys currently and you're the best that she has had according to her recollection, or even if she does recall something really good, she doesn't want to share it with you because you mean more to her than they ever would or could.
Actually..That means a lot. (or it should to you)
2007-04-05 14:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by biiiiaaach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BS, unless she has some type of amnesia or something, its BS
and since she had two affairs and you are with her?
gee, how nice of you
2007-04-05 14:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's possible, it's called Selective Memory Syndrome
2007-04-05 14:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by hw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋