Since I tend to be overly happy and enthusiastic, I also tend to be really confident...I sort of have a bouncy walk. :) But what's been making me feel bad is that I may be perceived in a negative way such as arrogant. I don't want to be perceived that way, I want to bring positive ideas. I wore heels and got dressed up because life is beautiful, and someone told me with some contempt...why are you all dressed up? Because I'm living!!!! Advice please? Am I arrogant for this? It's seems like some people are trudging through the day not seeing the beauty, and I worry if I irritate them with my positivity.
2007-04-05 13:32:30 · 4 answers · asked by 1 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I say good for you, that's a great attitude to have and an awesome way to live your life. Don't let anyone take away your joy. So many people are negative and miserable with themselves and happy people make them crazy or angry. I have to feel sorry for those people because they don't take the time to look around at the beauty that surrounds them and be thankful to be alive. You sound a lot like my wife and I love that she loves life. It is contagious. Don't let others bring you down.
2007-04-05 13:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a very enthusiastic friend who is in luv with life and loves to laugh and dress up in bright clothes that dont match...lol! according to her, laughing makes to live longer! i dont think there's anything wrong with dressing up and too many people dont understand life's beauty...u r a unique person and that's great! some people may think u want attention or u want to show off...i know this kid who struts...that's arrogant...it may seem unusual to people that u dress up just for the luv of life and i'll b honest, i'd think that quite odd too...but know that u state ur reason, there is noting wrong with it...a lot of people r depressed and u r lucky! dont stop being optimistic!! soon, there wont be such a word cuz everone's depressed...it takes ppl like u to keep the world from turning over! just tell people why u do thsese things...they'll understand...
2007-04-05 20:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by tigerkween623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do irritate them but thats their problem there are not enough happy ppl in this world confidence is a great thing and will get you far. im lazy and very rarely get dressed up and look nice and then i see some who does get dressed up and it just makes me wish i had taken the time to look pretty and not be more like them but care more like them about myself that is be proud of who you are we need more of you
2007-04-05 20:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by ppetss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes happy people bug me.
Especially if they don't know you and ask you what's worng.
It's hard to explain, really.
I just don't like hanging around overly-happy people.
2007-04-05 20:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋