Years ago i encountered a woman online who said she was born submissive and she had a "Dom" who used to seriously beat her. I believe one day he beat her with an iron bar. She said she enjoyed all this. Occasionally they would go to events where she would indulge in lewd sexual acts with various men - i am afraid to repeat them on here because there could be children around - but they involved her being taken advantage of sexually and beaten and other things. Her Dom told her what to do and when to do it. She was only allowed online with her partners permission.
She said many other things which really disturbed me.
SHe said that ther are people born to be submissive. She insisted that this wasnt just something that she and her partner played at - this was real... she was subordinate to all men.
Is there anyone who can relate to her? Is anyone out there born a submissive?
2007-04-05 11:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by Chimera's Song 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Oh god this one i can answer!.....
and well i think YES YES YES
like being born ..straight..or gay...or bisexual....we are all programed that certain things just feel right.....
all my life i have found myself SUBMITTING to men.... but not in a bdsm relationship.... the pleasure i would get from doing anything that i was asked was just amazing.... i found myelf @ just 16yrs playing Master/Genie with a man... at this point in my life i had no idea about bdsm.
but i grew up...then i did discover that these feelings i have ...i am not alone..... it has been a massive part of my life.... it as cause problems with my marriage as he is not a Master he too is submissive.....
in recent mths i have started a Master / slave relationship and i have never felt so right in all my life!
when i am cuffed .... blindfolded... and knelt before him i feel COMPLETE
but in saying this...i woudl never allow myself to be beaten with an iron bar....
this lifestyle needs to be respected!
girls can find themself in serious trouble if they dont understand this world....
there are many men /women out there who love the idea of being a Master...but very few that truely understand and have the knowlege to be a good one!
Master woudl never hurt his slave..... she will feel pain ...but not hurt...
at any point she has the right to say stop... but well if ur like me this would be heartbreaking....
so to answer ur question yes i too was born sub.....
because if i wasnt i wouldnt get so much pleasure and feel so contented with this!
hope this helps u understand....
2007-04-05 20:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Noone is born completely "submissive." Even toddlers struggle and want to learn to stand up and hold onto furniture to walk and balance themselves. Even babies are assertive enough to cry when they are hungry and want food. Humanbeings have an inbuilt mechanism for survival,unless it is continually in one way or another drained out of them by society or those close to the one who became "submissive." we all have certain characteristics which can be impounded apon us by society and If we are weakminded we could easily become "submissive. ",but that inbuilt mechanism of survival should help us revive.
2007-04-05 19:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by zenmind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a difference between submissive and naive, but I do not know if what she said was true about being born submissive, but whatever floats her boat, I mean the woman seems to enjoy these acts,
2007-04-05 18:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by danicolegirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll pray for her and others like her. She should know that she is priceless.
2007-04-05 18:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋