especially on winter/spring breaks. i understand that she has other friends.. but it just seems that as soon as our other friend leaves to go on vacation during the breaks, she stops calling or makes other plans last notice, usually leaving me with nothing to do.. i try confronting her on it, but all she does is deny it and make up more excuses. what do i do ?
2007-04-05 11:07:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow. I went through the same thing with my friend. We ended up fighting about it and then we made up again. I learned not to get jealous and i got over it. It was hard lots of tears lost. but then you realize that you have other friends too. (it starts to make them jealous when you hang out with other people) two can play that game! ;-). But just know that its not worth the tears or the sadness. just find some friends that you can have a good time with and she will relize it was her loss. Good Luck!
2007-04-05 11:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you making plans with her and then she changes the plan at the last minute and leaves you out? Or are you out at places and she just leaves you at the restaurant alone? Maybe you should make other friends, because this one doesn't really seem like the best kind of friend to have. Good luck.
2007-04-05 11:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like my ex best friend ! who i had for 6 years, she did the same exact thing to me, always lied and made up excuses for everything.
i thought i needed her and i still miss her but when i think i miss her i think of all the lies and times she ditched me and **** and it makes u think to urself ... u should find a friend who treats u with the respect u give and deserve
ull find someone else out there im sure of it!
2007-04-05 11:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get another friend, she does not even sound like someone that I would want to hang with.. not at all.. don't stand for less, move on and make other friends.. good luck!
2007-04-05 11:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's about time you do the ditching this time. Find another friend who can loyal to you. There at lot of people in this world whom you can be your friend. Go find that someone.
2007-04-05 11:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Reycen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make a new friend so you don't depend on her as much when you want someone to talk to and have a good time.
2007-04-05 11:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend. She'll get jealous, and you just tell you you were sick of waiting for her. You still love her as a friend, but it wasn't fair to you.
2007-04-05 11:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by serena3116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
she is not a friend, if she can not find away to include you with her other friends then she is not a good friend. it sound as if she might even be a little embarrassed of you,
2007-04-05 11:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like that who needs enemy's? Give her a dose of her own medicine and see how she likes it.
2007-04-05 11:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she's just using you and doesn't sound like a really good friend to me
2007-04-05 11:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Babe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋