my BEST BEST FRIEND told me about two weeks ago that "I dont think we should be best friends anymore. lets just be friends." and i was like "excuse me?" cuz if you knew us, we were closer than any friends can be. im not going to describe it but we were closer than a two points on a line. well i tryed to get used to it but since about march, she's been picking fights about every day and doing it on purpose, like ignoreing me for two girls in our gym class, and pretending she;s like SO popular. and then she's like REALLY pretty and im not a person to say that all that much but she thinks ALL GUYS like her but all the guys she thinks, hate her because she's so annoying. like this girl that is her new bff, shes REALLY nice but one of the most annoying people ever. my friends name is GABRIELA and the girl calls her "gabby poo" but i really dont wanna loose her but she does the same thing over and over. its a cycle cuz shes like "i promice i wont do it agian!" and then does it. PLEASE HELP!!
2007-04-05 09:58:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is having growing pains, and her ego is out of wack. Unfortunatelly she will someday learn the hard way what she
has lost in a truly best friend (which has nothing to do with looks, or popularity or boys etc.) I know it hurts, which will pass and you will make new friends. Hopefully ones that are less shallow. You are responsibe for your actions, not those of others. Make sure you are pleased with who you are, your reactions and actions in this and all other situations; and you'll make out just fine on the friendship level.
2007-04-05 10:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun, but you need to drop this girl. She has an attitude problem and is highly self-centered. She is using you. Next time she says she is sorry, tell her that you don't accept it. You are not her doormat that she can just walk all over. Maybe once she sees that she can't treat you like that, then she will change her ways. Maybe you or a guy can give her a heads up and tell her that she isn't "all that". Gabby Poo is SO STUPID! I think you should tell her that, or make fun of her for it, whatever makes you happy. Don't be scared to make new friends. She is spreading her wings and trying out new stuff socially, its just in a way that is annoying. Show her how it is really done.
2007-04-05 10:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just annoy it and let her get on with life. if she keeps doing this tell her to her face pick me or them give her a hard spot; if she fights or goes with them to be so so then she isnt ya true friend. it might be hard to let go but she is only going to make it nmore hard. find some one else too hang around with and chat with them. keep gabriella hurt like u have been. or just tell her being popular isnt a ig deal its just a big group who arnt real friends. they fight with each other and take days to make up. and a small group or 3 or 5 are best friends and may not think so but can be popular just cuz there bigger groups dosnt mean there trustful
2007-04-05 10:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by vickilou1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to be her friend. She sounds like a jerk! People grow older and they change. Looks like she's changed for the worse. I would laugh if a so called Best friend said we should bump our friendship down a notch. This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard! I would laugh and then never speak to that person again!
2007-04-05 10:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by MissG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend....and she thinks youre a dope - and you are because you take her back over and over - so basically what you are saying to her is this - "Its ok for you to treat me like crap and walk all over me because youre so much better than me and I am a desperate loser." And - that is what she thinks of you. Wake up and get rid of her and find some good friends.
2007-04-05 10:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Handbag Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter what you two were, only what she wants to be. There is nothing you can do if she doesn't want to be best friends anymore.
The world does not revolve around you.
2007-04-05 10:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would not sound like she's that on the factor of you. possibly you may distance your self from her for a on an identical time as. It seems such as you may desire to the two use a while faraway from one yet another.
2016-10-02 05:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by kelchner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you might be sad but tell her what a Brat she is being!
2007-04-05 10:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Justis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like some one wants ta be popular! wat kind of friend is that? she sounds like she needs an attitude adjustment. get some new friends since she sux at being one. ignore her.
2007-04-05 10:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by jldevin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋