my wife has aked for a divorce i have agreed signed papers but she has changed mind what can i do to end divor

Question

what can i do to get her to sign papers.

Answer 1

I think you should both give this another chance, because if it doesnt work out then at least you know you gave things a second chance and quite frankly dont you think that everyone deserves a second chance.

You know the problem with marriage is that people loose respect for each other and enter a crazy cycle. The bible says men are to love their wives as they love themselves and that means unconditionally too; and women are told to see to it that they respect their husbands. The reason for that is because woman naturally love their husbands but can easily loose respect and do usually when their husbands do not take the trouble to tell them that they love them. Women need to feel loved and its a mans duty to tell his wife that he loves her, and often too. She needs the reassurance. WHen that happens she automatically yields and the crazy cycle recedes. When a woman doesnt think her husband loves her she gets cranky difficult to live with and picky and even insulting, often bad mouthing and influenced by other women to go through the mans things to find THE evidence.

I think you both need to mature up some and to not live in the realm of feelings and emotions but rather to step over them and choose to do what is right. Listen whats happened here is something happening in most marriages today, and if you cannot get it right the first time round do you honestly think you will get it right the second time round? Go make things right between you and get the book LOVE AND RESPECT by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and learn to become accountable and considerate and loving and you will have a very happy wife.

I wish you the very best years together and it can be but then its your choice! I say give it another chance and dont quit so easily. Think about the things you like about her and think positive thoughts, not negative!

Answer 2

If she has change her mind and want to work in the marriage, if you want to also give it another chance, do so and see if it will work out for both of u.. If you want the papers sign talk to her one on one and tell her you are ready and really ready to sign the papers..

Answer 3

Basically the easiest thing is get married again or let the divorce go through and just date and see what happens before you go down the same path all over again?

God Bless and Good Luck!

Answer 4

there's too little here to go by. i dont know the situation.
what is the reason for her change of mind?
do u wanna stay with her? what do u want? do u have kids?

divorce is something both have to agree on, u have to think what this will cause! ignoring other person or changing locks might work! good luck!

Answer 5

Talk to your respective lawyers. An order of reconcillation can be prepared by either lawyer if you decide to remain married. Otherwise, if you want to proceed with the divorce the judge will order how your assets and custody matters will be settled.

Answer 6

Good question! You cant make her sign anything, but if you are separated and living apart for two years you can go ahead with the proceedings without her consent.

Answer 7

If she refuses to sign the divorce can go on anyway. Check with your local court system.

Answer 8

better ask a legal opinion because this a legal question. But i think it would be a lot easier because the move was initiated by her. Be honest with her.

Answer 9

you go to court and have the wedding ended without her agreement. She doesn't have to sign anything if she doesn't want to. It will just be more work for you that way.

Answer 10

Don't know if you can force her to be honest - you may have to wait for the 2 years legal separation...