*I know everyone is going to freak out over this question and get all heated about it.....but just hear me out. There is no "homewrecking" involved.
Anyways I wanted to know how many married guys out there, honestly fantasize about a younger girl (early 20's)....doing intimate things with the younger girl and your wife?
*And I don't think that having 3somes is grounds to call it cheating, since both spouses are involved in the act, and the other female never goes "home" with the husband.
Anyways NO I am not a homewrecker and I am not trying to mess anyone's marriage up, I'm just curious to know...and because I have never done anything like that, and yes, I admit that I am interested in trying it sometime......? So guys?
~Sorry if I offended anyone...it was not my intention.
2007-04-05 09:15:55 · 13 answers · asked by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry but I am not the one who has self-esteem issues lol...it has nothing to do with self-esteem ladies, really it does not. It's more of a "fantasy" in case you didn't grasp that. So if you don't agree with me, and you think it's wrong...then DON'T respond to what I write on here! Move on. I don't need to hear whiners and PMS rags...going on and on about how it's SOO wrong. I think it's some of the wives with insecurity and self-esteems issues, because if you were comfortable in your marriage and you had TRUST then you would not get so heated about it, and be all dramatic and paranoid thinking some younger girl will steal your husband, because really that's what all wives underlying fear is. And hey...if you are not the married couple involved in the act, then shut the hell up...b/c what do you have to worry about?! Quit trippin ladies...you only live once, so live well.
2007-04-05 10:12:24 · update #1
No offense at all. I think this is something alot of people fantasize about, and alot of us would be willing to try if it weren't for some risks. The emotional risks, the std risks (which are significant), pregnancy issue risks and so on. I do believe that if both parties want it and are confident that it can work, then it can work. But I also believe part of the attraction is how taboo it is...and it is taboo for a reason. Risks are risks, and they add to the excitement and also are...risky.
2007-04-05 09:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm where fantasy meets reality. Fantisizing about this is probably fine, but the reality of it would be very hard on the relationship between the husband and wife. I don't think you can sleep with someone without forming some type of emotional bond (maybe others can, I can't) and this is why some fantasies can never come to be.
2007-04-05 16:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't fantize to much including the wife but i do a lot just to have a young woman. If a guy can get his wife and a young girl at the same time great but who would need the wife if you got a fine young woman there.
2007-04-05 16:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like a legit question and u phrased it nicely so I would say u will have some success finding such a couple. It is not cheating since it is consensual and approved by the woman.
2007-04-05 16:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have talked about it and she is interested also. Of course so am I. We have been married fro almost ten years and are just looking to make things more interesting once in a while. We think its a healthy thing. Good luck to you. And of course have fun!
2007-04-05 17:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by ryder204_jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iwould love to have a 3some with my wife and a 20 something hot girl.Its not cheating and its all in fun right
2007-04-05 16:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by jpcbbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attitude's everything, and I like your open mind. Older more experienced women have much more to offer. They know what they like and they're not afraid to go after it. Looks fade. Youth is overrated
2007-04-05 18:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we need more. Sharing a girl would be nice, but I'd like to have more with my wife first.
2007-04-05 16:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Outstanding....you should be given to people on wedding days. i say go for it. If they are willing to do that then the reprocussions hopefully have been thought out by them. Yeah i would definitely do it.....your hot
2007-04-05 16:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasize about hhmm yes and would like to try it
2007-04-05 16:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by Bent Wheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋