what should I do?

Question

a friend of mine recently told me her mother died earlier this month. When she spoke about it she sounded chipper and she she was fine about it.

When I see her next should I mention it, or should i send a card?

Answer 1

I am sure you offered her condolences when she told you this. I don't think I would bring it up, but of course if she mentions her Mom, do talk with her about it. Some people are in denial for awhile and then at some point, they realize they need to talk about it.