This isnt a small high school rumors where you can switch school or move and it goes away, this is somthing huge, i been dealing with this for years now, everyone and everywhere i go people herad these rumors and believe them and nobody wants to be my friend etc, how is this possiable? is there a way to let everyone one know about someone?, for exsample if someone was a thief, and he actully wasent but someone spread a rumors about the person saying he was, and let say he lived in SF and he moved to LA and the rumors flowed him like everyone now in La thinks hes a thief too, how can a rumors go 400 miles away? That's what im experencing ,no mater where i go the rumors flow me, its like someoe some how emailed eveyone everywhere or im on some website,how do I stops this? how do i turn tis around? how do i find if there im on some website or peopel are emailing bloging about me how do I let everyone know that i not any rumors thats out there about me how do i email every1 help me please
2007-04-05 07:48:13 · 6 answers · asked by celibatevirgin 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
looks like you have a long road a head off you but you need to start with one person and work your way up and build peoples trust ,, have you ever stole any thing in your life if not just , work it out one person at a time...
2007-04-05 07:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by dianemelloniemarlenejerryginder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't stop rumors. they are like feathers scattered to the wind. you can't possibly stop them nor bring them back.
as for the people who now think you are not a nice person, people who are willing to believe a lie will always be willing to assume the worst.
to prevent the problem in the future:
make sure your personal character is totally above reproach.
do not affiliate or associate yourself with people of low reputation and action
live your life honestly and above board. rise above the suspicions of others by conducting yourself in such a way that they will NOT believe the lies.
refuse to sanction, condone or participate in anything that could stain your reputation, diminish your integrity or reveal some element of dishonesty in yourself.
George Washington Carver had "Eight Cardinal Virtues" for the students he taught at Tuskeegee University. If you live by them, you will rise above the gossip and leave the naysayers marinating in their own filth.
Eight cardinal virtues:
1. Be clean both inside and out.
2. Be a person who neither looks up to the rich nor down on the poor.
3. Be a person who loses, if need be, without squealing.
4. Be a person who wins without bragging.
5. Be a person who is always considerate of women, children and old people.
6. Be a person who is too brave to lie.
7. Be a person who is too generous to cheat. (or steal)
8. Be a person who takes his share of the world and lets others have theirs.
Good Luck!
2007-04-05 07:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by stonechic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I don't think you can. But, there's one thing about it: This will sure help you sort out the "real people" from the flakes! Good friends don't go by rumors. Now you know right from the start who's solid and who isn't! And incidenally, you're in great company! Jesus Christ had the same problem!
2007-04-05 08:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on wonder no one wants to hang with you your a weirdo I have no idea what the problem is is this a riddle
2007-04-05 08:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
move to Timbuktu
2007-04-05 07:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would help if you would tell us what rumors they are.
2007-04-05 07:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋