Also, I personally am not into feet, my sister used to torture me by tickling my feet, so now I dont like people messing with my feet. What do I do?
2007-04-05 07:12:05 · 6 answers · asked by cutieblues28 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It depends a lot on your mutual trust and his desires.
If you do an online search for "foot fetish" or if you visit MYSPACE GROUPS, YAHOO GROUPS, MSN GROUPS..., you will find that there are quite a lot of people, male and female, who have a foot fetish. It does not necessarily have to include tickling.
If he wants to please you and you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, explain your concerns and let him give you a nice foot massage. With the proper pressure, it might not tickle at all and it will feel good. If you feel a tickle sensation, relax your muscles and it will not tickle as much.
As you feel more comfortable with the massages, he might want to kiss your feet or gently tickle them. This will not be the same torture as when your sister tickled you against your will. You might even find that you enjoy the attention more than you imagined!
One thing to be aware of though, the feet, for many people, can become an erogonous zone with kissed and caressed gently and you might become sexually aroused by it. If you do not have a sexual relationship with him, this might cause some sexual discomfort.
One last note: As a life long lover of playful tickling, I can tell you that tickling does not have to be a bad experience. I have had the pleasure of sharing my playful tickling encounters with a few ladies who told me that they "hated" to be tickled and they learned that they only hated to be tickled when the tickler did not respect them or their limits. Since I kept it fun and enjoyable for them, they loved my encounter. I hope that your sister has not ruined the potential for you to ever enjoy tickling again.
Good luck to you and your boyfriend!
2007-04-06 17:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't think of it as your feet being "messed with" everyone likes a good foot massage, pedicure, or simply having them paid attention to. Offer up your feet to him and tell him that tickling is out if you don't like that. As the two of you get comfortable with eachother, you can decide the do's and dont's of your feet. He'll enjoy having your feet and you'll enjoy the attention.
2007-04-07 02:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Peter F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well foot fetishes do not always require licking or touching. Some fetishist just like seeing a bare foot or one in certain footwear like stockings or stilettos. Tell him about your distate for people messing with your feet and see what specifically about feet arouses him. I am sure that you 2 can find something enjoyable.
2007-04-05 07:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by seandashark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All foot fetishists are into different things. Ask him what he likes/wants. If he happens to be into tickling, you'll have to work out whether or not the guy is worth it for you to try getting over your dislike for tickling.
2007-04-05 16:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by nope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to attempt positions which will placed your feet in his line of creative and prescient - like you on your decrease back inclusive of your feet on his shoulders. The seen element of any sex act is of tremendous value for men, rather at the same time as it includes indulging a foot fetish. at the same time as a lady jerks me off inclusive of her bare feet it feels staggering, notwithstanding evidently ******* mind-blowing! I are available in lower than 3 minutes of strong, continuous pumping of the giver's bare feet; and its mainly because i'm gazing her pink polished feet & silky searching bare feet arising & down as she pumps me. There are some positions which will placed your feet proper close to his mouth. like you on your decrease back inclusive of your legs in the air and both of you having sex that way. Your feet will be placed completely. and positively, as suggested before, you ought to jerk him off inclusive of your bare feet giving him footjobs until eventually crowning glory (making him come).
2016-12-03 08:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he can look but can't touch,
and paint your toes really pretty colors.
you could tease him with your purple toes.
Play footsie
hehe
2007-04-05 07:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋