In your opinion is it ok to flirt ?

Question

if your taken?

Answer 1

Yes. It's okay for me but not for him. Life isn't fair.

Answer 2

No it is not ok. I think it is totally ok to talk to other guys and have engaging conversations with them without flirting. I would never sacrifice the freedom to have a thoughtful conversation with a guy other than my husband just because I am married, but there is a fine line sometimes between just talking and flirting. Some guys will try to push it and that is when you, the girl, have to step up and remind them that you are taken. I always wear my ring, and I am never afraid to speak up. That is how I handle it. My husband trusts me and knows I can handle myself. He does not tolerate guys hitting on me, but he does not try to control who I talk to either, which is something a lot of jealous husbands and boyfriends with trust issues do, so I am grateful for that. Bottomline though--I don't think it's ok because it opens the door for the possibility of other things to happen. It is basically like a pandora's box in my opinion.

Answer 3

Flirting when you're taken is sending the signal that you're available.

You are giving someone of the opposite sex attention and you want attention back. Chances are very good that the person on the receiving end of your flirting is someone you find attractive. You're not flirting with everyone AND definitely not the UGLY ones.

Flirting = encouragement.

Answer 4

The problem is when you are naturally a flirt, my mom says that since very little I've been a flirt, I do not try to flirt, it's just in me, so how can I control it? Have try several times, but didn't know that things that are natural to me actually means flirting!

Answer 5

I am spoken for, and yes i flirt, but it is only a bit of fun trust me it means nothing, i would never overstep the mark, and take the flirting to another level, it is not worth ruining my relationship for a little flirtation that is used on everyone else, and on me and vice versa it's like leaves blowing in the wind for me it means nothing at the end of the day, no big deal.

Answer 6

Flirting is a healthy social skill that when acted upon in appropriate context, is not only very useful, but expressive. If you are a natural flirt you may want your partner to know this, as to keep trouble from brewing down the road. If you aren't a natural flirt, and need to sharpen those skills, just think playfulness mixed with a little sensuality!

Answer 7

Some people take flirting a little too far. There's a difference in "harmless" & not so harmless flirting. I've been accused of flirting in the past w.o even realizing I was doing it. Some men are just insecure.

Answer 8

yes and no....
lets be honest its IMMPOSSIBLE for girls NOT to flirt.
it comes naturally.
i looove to flirt.
while ur taken ??
well... everyone does it but if u feel that ur attracted to another guy then mabye u should end it.
It is wrong if you cross the line.
wanting to look cute in front of the guys down the hall is no biggie. Luaghing and making jokse... not a big deal
.butt kissing guys no the cheek ...or jumping all over them is wrong

Answer 9

Yep...I do it all the time and I love it. I'm in a 3 year relationship. I love him and am totally committed to him but i still flirt. It's ok, just don't take it to the next step.

Answer 10

Harmless flirting, like with the movie ticket taker is OK. Office flirting can be dangerous or any flirting where something can come of it should probably be avoided.
Good luck.

Answer 11

There can be many answers to this Q.

In one way....think of it the other way round.....if you're ok with your guy/gal doing it.....go ahead.

But from my point of view......I guess its not cause flirting....no matter how mild.....can often lead to complications. And for me.....to flirt with the one you love is the best deal and lotsa fun too!