i feel helpless?

Question

well.its about this friend of mine.she is my senior in school.i'm just kinda crazy bout her. i love her like a sister.she says she loves me too but she just does'nt make me feel that way.she avoids me sometimes when another girl is with her.she is very possessive about methough and does'nt like me interacting with certain other seniors.sometimes she does'nt even show interest in speaking to me and pretends that i'm not there.its killing me.i think i'm starting to dislike her.so what do you think i should do.just leave her and hang out with my other friends or tell her what i feel,[i'm a little bit nervous to do that though]

Answer 1

is there something that you have that she might be just using you for? but it could be that sometimes you guys spend too much time together and she might get tired of that

Answer 2

obviously this girl dosen't like to hang around you at school, probably cause your younger. She dosen't sound like a very good friend, I think you should tell her how you feel (even though it may be scary) if you really loved her as a sister and wanted to keep her as a good friend then you have to let her know how your feeling. Thats the number one mistake that friends can do sometimes is not let there friend know how their feeling so they can never fix whatever the problem is!
Good Luck

Answer 3

just leave her alone and do what you like to do regardless of your possible thinking of her thoughts. don't be the first to say hi for a while. wait and see if she comes around and starts talking to you like a true friend. maybe she isnt a good friend after all? don't feel nervous feel confident about yourself and who you are. she may be going through some rough times that she may want to figure out herself. lots of speculation so leave her alone and let it be.

good luck!

Answer 4

Sounds more like a dysfunction love affair.

Anyway, just be yourself and do what you want. If she is your friend then she can join in or sit around and pout.

Why do you feel the need to explain? Actions speak louder than words.

Answer 5

let her come to you, if she is acting that way its because she doesnt want to be seen with you. She also thinks you might steel her friends away from her. Make new friends hang out with them. This doesnt mean you need to forget about her, but just say hi && ther when she! say's "hi" to you. Or just smile during passing periods.

Answer 6

Tell her how you feel. Tell her "If you do love me like you say you do, as friends, then you will stop ignoring me and making me feel bad." If she REALLY does love you, then she will stop. If she says she does, but still doesn't act like it, then just stop being friends with her, because she's not worth spending your time over when she's not even nice to you. Good luck! : ]

Answer 7

Don't let her walk all over your feelings.She does not seam to care if she hurts you Just teller her. Before you start to hate her walk away.There are others out there that know how to be a good friend.You don't need her kind of friendship it hurts too much

Answer 8

you need to sit her down and tell her how you feel
if you reall love her and care for her......you wouldnt be nervous because someone who loves a person will do anything in order to keep that love burning.......if you love her and dont want to loose your friend...then you would forget about all the obstacles and talk to her...go out there and save that frienship....

Answer 9

Real Friends support you and allow you to have 'other' friends. Real friends are friends ALL the time, not just when it's good for them. Perhaps you should break away from this 'friend'- she isn't behaving like one. It may be painful for you, but she is not acting like a Friend to you at all.

Answer 10

God Bless U