If you have no responsibilities. No one that you want to be around, and nothing left to really want to do,
Can you just up and walk away?
Take nothing, have nothing, and just GO?
2007-04-05 04:55:17 · 37 answers · asked by calibrated_confusion 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
no. if you are trying to get away from problems you end up taking your problems with you
2007-04-05 05:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by zed10096 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is Not wrong to just Want to disappear, to walk away and never be heard from again, it is not wrong to express these feelings aloud, but what you do with these feelings is another question. Are you going to just get up and walk out? Are you willing to consider others feelings on it - will you hurt anyone by doing what you are considering doing? What will come of it? Is it worth it? Take some time to yourself and ask yourself why you are pondering this. Find someone you trust to talk to.
2007-04-05 05:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, but it sounds like you might be underestimating how important YOU are to others.
Are you feeling blue or have you not been feeling yourself lately? If so, you might want to chat with a counselor before you do something so drastic.
If you're just your same old self and the ties that bind just don't mean anything to you or them, then starting over might be cleansing.
Starting over in a new place, new job, new things to do and see... can be really exillerating, and movtivating.
I wouldn't recommend disappearing though, unless your family is a total nightmare. If they are, at least leave a note saying what you're doing, so they don't have police and search parties out looking for you.
2007-04-05 05:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt that way many times. Too bad there is always some responsibilty standing in my way. I did almost move to a 3rd world country to just get away, but it didn't work out. I think I have a gypsy spirit, I need to roam, doesn't work in this society though. Join the peace corps, 2 years of being gone and having nothing.
2007-04-05 05:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by apuleuis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to want to disappear. I think everyone has moments or times in their life that they think it would be easier just to go somewhere else and start over. The problem is that if you do, what makes you think that wherever you end up will be a better place? My advice is to look for what you do have wherever you are and focus on what you really want. I bet you would find that if you did just walk away, there would be people in your life that would miss you.
2007-04-05 05:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Ilovecheese 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely understand how you feel. Sometimes life gets so hectic that you just want to get away from it all and drop all your responsibilities. Once I even considered moving to Siberia on a whim just to get away from everything!
It's not at all wrong to feel this way, but there are ways you can feel better. Plan a trip to get away from it all, or plan something in the future that you can look forward to. Schedule dinner dates with friends and family, and you won't feel as hopeless. Having something to look forward to really helps :)
2007-04-05 05:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by StarRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a common desire among many people. It just would make life a lot easier. What difficulties would be involved? None really. If you start thinking you will change your mind. You owe no one, you like no one, you trust no one. Go someplace the weather is nice and the people seem friendly and mind their own business. You may do okay.
2007-04-05 05:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jim R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many young people have done that. However, it's best to let SOMEONE know that you are leaving and occasionally send an email, so you aren't reported as a missing person. Your family will worry about you and it's unreasonable to torment them. You do OWE them knowledge of your whearabouts as they spent 18 years giving up other things to raise you.
2007-04-05 05:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong. It is wrong because you are part of the human race. You must have come from somewhere? or were you spontaneously conceived? You don't have friends, your not close to family, what is your malfunction? who can you find to tell you how to fix your malfunction? Your statement reeks of DEPRESSION. A little Zyban and you would be planning the next family reunion. Get busy and heal yourself.
2007-04-05 05:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by jordan_smith@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do something as dumb as that, just to get out of responsibilities. Take nothing and have nothing and be nothing, that is sad.
2007-04-05 04:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should figure out why you feel this way.Second i think we all feel like that from time to time but can't because we've made decisions we can't run from or want to run from.Are you old,so old that there isn't anything else you want to do or experience.Don't get up and walk away ,get up and DO.
2007-04-05 05:02:22 · answer #11 · answered by Dodgegirl62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋