By young, I am refering to anyone who has not had the chance to start a family or actually live life.
2007-04-05 04:13:36 · 14 answers · asked by ET 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
This question you ask has many facets and assumptions: only one soulmate for each person, soulmate implies sexual relationship, soulmates rely one one another to define their being.
A soulmate is an unfolding relationship in which both parties commit to one another's spiritual understanding o themselves. It is a relationship of allowance, accountability, and unconditional love. Suicide is an act often done by an individual failing/ unable to experience such a relationship and who also has no faith that one could be possible. People are set-up for failure when they go looking for a soulmate in life. These relationships happen on their own accord, can't be forced, and can't be "make believed."
Working with people who ask if their soulmate is out there, I often refer them to themselves. Do you have a relationship of unconditional love for yourself, where you allow your spiritual unfolding to happen and manifest to what you need in the world? This is the place where the inner health of the person manifests and holds the individual in such a way that the whole soulmate piece takes a backseat. Those that suicide often don't have this experience of themselves.
The soulmate experience is real once the individual surrenders to the fact that he/she is responsible for their own happiness in the world and then finds their way. those people attract like-minded individuals and then it's a matter of paying attention to the one(s) that have that little something extra.
2007-04-05 04:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Steven P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely this is rare. But i guess its also how you look at the word. I belive a soulmate is someone you can connect with and understand like no one else can. I belive they were sent to you by God. A person who is suicidial would have a hard time finding someone like that because their pain and hurt is basically eating them alive. The techincal term for suicide is when your pain over takes your coping ability and you need a way to end the pain. (somethign like that anyway) People who are suicidal have basically isolated themselves from the rest of the world because they belive no one cares. More than likely if sucidial people belive at least one person cares they wouldnt die because they would live for that person. My opinion
2007-04-05 04:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, you will do a lot better in the world if you stop thinking there is a soulmate out there. And not for the reason you think. The idea of a soulmate sets up an impossible standard for your partner to ever live up to. Soulmates are great for romance novels but lousy for your life and your partner's life.
2007-04-05 04:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dancing Bee 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
A soul-mate is not in reference to a particular person. A soul-mate is a person who fulfills the needs of another, while their needs are fulfilled equally by the one. In the cause of a suicide, the person has denied him/her self of this finding. However, the death of one person does not interfere with the possibility of the one finding true love in another who is capable of fulfilling their needs. A soul-mate, or mate for the soul, could be anyone who is willing to love the other completely.
2007-04-05 05:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by mr.bond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't just one soul mate for everyone. The soul is something that can grow and learn from self reflection and not from anyone else. A soul mate is just when two peoples souls are at the same point of enlightenment. They don't always stay soul mates when one soul grows faster than the other.
2007-04-05 04:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nobody Girl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there is no one soul perfectly aligned to another...there are several people that are compatible with another...otherwise we would never meet our soulmates...it would be a statistically impossible to meet the one person out of six billion that perfectly fits your needs and desires...thus if you found that special someone and they left this world...you will find another if you are open to the possibility of another love in your life
2007-04-05 20:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by undeadninjamonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming such a thing exists, you don't necessarily meet your soulmate every time.
Sometimes we might settle for the next best mate.
2007-04-05 04:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Humanist 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i don't know about the one soul mate out there because there are so many people and you meet very few of them and happen to find your soulmate? i think you learn to love, you learn to love that one. and there are other people out there you can learn to love. love at first sight is shallow.
2007-04-05 04:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just answered your own question.
Its very simple.
Not everyone has a soul mate.
2007-04-05 04:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by UnTrace 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the concept of a soul mate, as it applies to reincarnation,,,, would not mean that in each life you connect with your soul mate,,,,,,, there is also the concept ,,, in other theories, that a soul mate is a deep true friend,,,,,,, not a romantic interest,,,,,, and there again you may or may not connect with them each lifetime
2007-04-05 04:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋