I am 27 yrs old and my hubby is 35 we have been married 6 yrs not so happily he cheated and i cheated to get back at him (but he did not know that till recently).The affair calls into question the paternity of my 2 kids (twins) .Been seperated from hubby 1.5 yrs now and not spoken in 4 months.He came home yesterday to attack me because he found out about the affair.The man i had an affair with is an ex.bf from HS who is a mechanic now owns a shop.I have no clue how my hubby found out he never goes to the mechanics (only place affair was seen)because he hates cars. Also my ex.bf would never had said anything for his own personal reasons.I want the person who spilled fired from work?
2007-04-05 04:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by Carrie L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only people who saw me go upstairs to the apartment over the shop were the workers their because it has a seperate entrace!
2007-04-05 04:16:37 · update #1
Do not ruin another person's life because of your mistake. You made the mistake and two innocent kids are going to pay for it. Don't make someone else pay too.
2007-04-05 04:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test and settle that question. Then figure out what happens from there. You cant plan any kind of future for you and your kids till you know which man is the father. Plus if either man is in your life in ways other than being the father of your kids. As to how he found out it really doenst matter. There are some people who just like to cause trouble. Be the better person and move on.
2007-04-05 11:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a fire that will consume you, let it go, two wrongs do not make a right. If you both cheated than shame on both of you. Either move on to someone else or forget it. It will make no sense to ruin another life for your mistake.
2007-04-05 11:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want that for anyone it was your mistake in the first place. Why should someone else have to pay for your mistake? That's not fair. Just let it go your marriage is doomed anyway. Right?
2007-04-05 11:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tettypu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let get this right, you feel that thi person ruined your life and you want to get even, YOU and only YOU ruined your life. Levae the guy alone, If I knew of someones spouse cheating I would tell their spouse also.
2007-04-05 11:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to shift the blame for your affair on to someone who told on you???? I would rather take the blame for your own affair rather than trying to make out someone else was the guilty party.
2007-04-05 11:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go. what possible satisfaction can you get out of ruining another life? this person may have a family to support. if you had not done something out of revenge there would be no question about paternity...
2007-04-05 11:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by ac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not grounds for firing someone. Your case is personal. Rules of work never bring home problems to work and vis-versa.
2007-04-05 11:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck and grow up.... it is comman knowledge at the garage that you are a cheater
2007-04-05 11:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go cos your marriage is doomed.
2007-04-05 11:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋