ok long story short, im 18 and lest my verginity to my bf who is 26, we have had sex 3 times now, i cant get off i donno if its me or him... i donno if he to small or what, its makeing him feel bad cause we tried different ways and all that.. he thinks its him and it makes him feel less of a man that i know he is. i need some answers...
2007-04-05 02:23:24 · 8 answers · asked by livedrivedrag88 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
we have only tried him penatraiting me, different postions and all but that way...
2007-04-05 02:43:07 · update #1
u didnt mention exactly what kind of sex your having. if its just him penetrating you then you just might not be able to have an orgasm this way. has he tried arousing you by using his hand or finger on your clitoris(small nub found near top of the vagina)? some women need this extra stimulation to reach orgasm. try different approaches as well as some positions offer better friction. dont give up until all possibilities(and the both of you) are exhausted....lol good luck
2007-04-05 02:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by coolred38 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes some time to be able to totally get your grove on and get the hang of it. If you were just a virgin and you are not feeling him that much he may be small but that shouldn't matter that much. Check out some websites on sex and female pleasure it may help you learn how to achieve orgasm. Be patient, good luck.
2007-04-05 09:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever pleased yourself? That's a good start so you know what feels good and works for you and then you can tell your partner.
Not all women can climax from intercourse either! Nothing to do with size and stuff. try oral..stimulation with his or your fingers. Positions can make a difference too.
Being only 3 times for you, I would expect a learning curve :)
BE SAFE! and enjoy
2007-04-05 09:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st, remember ; if you're gonna get talking about sizes of anatomy, YOU are clearly the one who is not normal. you are probably too large. There is nothing wrong with the man. Remember, sex is about a MAN'S needs & is for a man to release his semen. Stop being selfish; support this man's emotions & ego in whatever way you can. you are fortunate he chose to be intimate with you girl. Above all, LISTEN to him ; he can tell you how he needs to be pleased.
2007-04-05 09:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by The kissman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most women can not get off with just penetration.
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My god woman you are 18! Write like you are not 13 and say what you mean!
2007-04-05 09:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words for you: Clitoral Stimulation.
2007-04-05 10:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you have just started this experience= both you and he should find your pleasure spots
2007-04-05 09:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you can't get off please talk in normal language so that we can understand
2007-04-05 09:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by TP 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋