Just had a "last minute" invite to the wedding of one of my boyfriend's mates in just over a week's time! Money's a bit tight at the moment, and I don't know the bride or the groom, so could use some help...
I was wondering if I can get away with an existing black dress, with bright turqoise wrap, some killer heels, and bright accessories (it's a late morning church ceremony)?
All comments appreciated!
2007-04-05 00:51:31 · 25 answers · asked by cazmo2911 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
No, no and thrice no!
Wearing black to a wedding shows that you 'curse' the wedding or are mourning a loss (typically the groom, ie: you're his bit on the side and losing him now he's getting married and wearing black to show that).
It is tradition that ladies do NOT wear a black outfit (bright accessories or not!) and it may well offend or upset the bride. I'm sure this isn't what you intend to do, especially as you don't even know her!
However, it is becoming more acceptable to wear black for the reception or an evening wedding, but as your question suggests it's a daytime wedding, I would say think again!
Wedding etiquette dictates that wedding guests shall not
Wear white.
Wear black to a daytime wedding (at evening weddings black is appropriate).
Jeans or printed t-shirts
Anything you would wear to a bar (including anything too sexy or revealing).
Female guest attire for daytime weddings can include:
A flirty floral dress with a matching hat.
A skirt and blouse or a sweater set.
Strappy high-heeled sandals.
A bright-colored suit in pastel blue, pink or sage green. Colors like black and navy are too business-like.
2007-04-05 03:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dont the "black to a daytime wedding" thing and found it to be ok. It was a garden wedding, just after lunch time and I dressed it up with some brighter accessories - which sounds like you are doing. I think it should be fine. Especially if you dont know the bride and groom, its not worth forking out money you dont have on a new outfit.
2007-04-05 01:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by violetvamp82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you should have called your mate and asked him if he knew the colors. Even though your money isn't a thick of a stack you could have t least went somewhere and looked for a budget. Well i think that is a cute outfit and if they just look at your shoes (only if the dress stands out) then trust me they will be like ohh where did you get those shoes! But I would still wear it cuase its a last minute invatation so at least you got a excuse. And the groom is wearing black so why not wear black to. Its only fair.
2007-04-05 02:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by SwittieHeart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wearing a black dress to a wedding is not bad at all, and your accessories sound nice with the turquoise wrap. You don't really have to wear pink to a wedding just because, just dress to impress. Wear the dress, don't let wear you. Good Luck and have fun!!!
2007-04-05 01:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by imari104012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think you can wear anything you want to a wedding as long as it's not white (upstages the bride). Most churches nowadays are very modern and don't expect hats etc. anymore. Go for it, I'm sure you'll look great and you'll be perfect for when the band/disco starts later and you ditch the wrap.
2007-04-05 02:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds gorgeous honey! It is perfectly reasonable not to buy a dress for a wedding where you dont know the bride or groom. As long as you look smart and smile lots you will be fine.
2007-04-05 01:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All eyes will be on the bride, her mother, and the groom's, so I would not worry.
Black is always elegant, flattering, and what you describe sounds perfecly acceptable. The turquoise wrap and accesories will make it absolutely clear you are not dressed for a funeral. Smile, and your thoughtful and tactful personality will win the day!
2007-04-05 01:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by WISE OWL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you in mourning for an event outside the wedding? If not, are you in mourning for the life of the bride/groom?
Yes, a wedding is supposedly a happy occasion, never mind that 50% end in divorce. Why are you sticking out your tongue at it?
2007-04-05 01:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as you might already be aware of black is used during funerals but if you have no choice you can wear the dress with some colourful accessories like a chain and bangles.
apply some nice makeup to your face. red or burgundy lipsick.and most important be confident.
2007-04-05 01:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by havillah k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds fine aslong as you break the black up,you will suprised how many people wear black,i wore a black suit to my cousins as i was skint with pink top bag etc and i was a bit worried but 10 girls turned up in black suits..lol.i wouldnt worry to much get yourself a nice bag and matching shoes to match the wrap get these cheap from next,matalan or primark.enjoy the day,you will soon forget what your wearing when the drinks are flowing and you wont care.xx
2007-04-05 02:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by easty90210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋