I feel like dying. I am useless. I am a male in my 20s who has been having homosexual strugggles.
I feel like I am useless. I am not worthwhile. I hate that I am gay and want to know if I can change
I have low self esteem and have done ALOT of things I regret b/c of this
2007-04-05 00:30:55 · 11 answers · asked by whatisit2007 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, I'm not gay myself, but I know other people who are, and they often seem to feel the same way that you do (especially guys). You can't change the way that you are, and you can't help who you are attracted to. So I will give you a little piece of advice to remember (it always helps me when I am upset).
OK, Stop and Think...
1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.
4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
5. Every night SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep
6. You mean the world to someone.
7. If not for you, someone may not be living.
8. You are unique and special.
9. Someone you don't even know exists, loves you.
10.When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.
11. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.
12. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself, sooner or later, you will get it.
I hope this helps : )
2007-04-05 00:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same way you do right now. I am 20 years old and I have been having struggles from now all through my teens and so forth. I mean look at the piss-stains who answered your question at the top. Look what the world is full of. Sucks doesn't it. I just hope the fact that I'm going through it too and ur not the only one makes u feel a little bit better, dude. I haven't been happy ever. Wish you and I could look out for each other :)
2007-04-05 01:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Masta P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not worthless at all. You are here for a reason and you have much to contribute to the world. Love yourself for who you are and others will love you too. You do not owe apologies or explanations to anyone. People are people. Nobody in this world is better than you and if they think they are then they have a problem not you. You have a lot to live for and life is beautiful. Turn off that hate swtich and turn on to love and you will be just fine. You are very special in your own way for who you are. All the best. Cherie
2007-04-05 00:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by chere t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not worthless,the chemicals and minerals in the human body are worth about $2.25.
But really a period of down-depression-or wortlessness is not the end.Take each day one day at a time and you can get a new out look on your self and your life.
Good Luck.
That's all I have to say about that.
2007-04-05 02:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by blakree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You are not worthless. Stop revolving your world around your sexual tendencies.
2. You cannot change your sexual preferences - it is the way it is. Stop hating it and learn how to cope.
3. Start telling yourself each day that you are important in this world and you have a lot to contribute to society - and do it with a smile on your face! Positive thinking will bring you out of your doldrums and you will begin to see good things happening.
2007-04-05 00:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
im so sorry for u.i used to be like that too.i felt worthless and cheap and i always thought i was a living a lie.but its ok!!!!ive learnt to except myself the way i am.thats the only way youll survive.and no ur not cheap.u were born that way nad ur special.and the truth is no one can point fingers at ur coz everyones a sinner
2007-04-05 00:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by exagreat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no y0ur worth everything in the world to Jesus-have hope=
YES THERE IS HOPE IN JESUS =EASTER RESURRECTION AND NEW LIFE
i PRAYED Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen" now i live in the joy set free of salvation and promise of heaven forever too
Jesus promised "I love you, and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin and be your friend if you ask me in repenting of sin to be in fellowship with you and you with me." Revelation 3:19&20
Ist Corinthians 6:9-13 "Homosexuals, fornicators and such WERE some of you, but you have been cleansed by the blood of Jesus."
if you stand by someone who is going against JESUS-you got the problem
being in hell for a day-that would change ones whole life-to come to salvation & pray more for those lost -not to go to gnashing teeth torment forever for rejecting the one that would love them forever=Revelation 19-22nd chapters Jesus describes the joy of salvation and heaven to come, and the agony of damnation.
SOME SAY THEY believe in Jesus...but they dont follow Him...no use..they just know Him by name...it's their choice coz for some reason and time they are happy with their PLEASURE FOR A SEASON IN SIN...God gave us the freedom anyway to choose from right and wrong
2007-04-05 02:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are not worthless.....trust me on this.....you are going to be just fine.....you are a good person and you just need to get yourself around people who support you and don't drain you .....It can be difficult being in your 20's.....however things will look up and you ll start to see changes....but never .....ever....let me hear you say you wish you were not gay......or ill have to slap you... ;-)
2007-04-05 01:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No life is worthless. You need to get help.
You deserve to live, as does everyone else.
2007-04-05 10:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by trailangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not useless, i use to do homo stuff when i was on meth. till Jesus came and saved me. it is sinful, and God allowed bad things to happened to me to scare me from doing it again. i still get temptations, but then i stop thinking about it. you need to accept Jesus Christ as your personal saviour, repent from your sins, and PRAY
2007-04-05 00:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by azn g 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋