how can i get myself out of this situation? living with mother in law and I can't find a job?

Question

serious answers only please.

I do not like staying here and I only stay here as my other half (her son) doesn't have much money either - he thinks it is ok staying here - he doesn't realise whats its like for me - he is ok here as he is her son buts its tricky for me. I do appreciate her letting me stay - she has done a lot for me. I just don't want to be in this situation. I am trying hard to look for work as I realise that is the priority to get some money.

Answer 1

Bump the old cow off discreetly.

Answer 2

well i really cant see what is the relation between sitting with your mom in law and cant find a job, yet i will talk about finding a job, here is some tips i do myself when im looking for a job,first of all make sure that u have a presentable updated resume that can stand up for a challeng, then go for recruiting companies, also tell all your friends, family members, neighbours that u r looking for a job in the field u r qualified and interested in. finally yet not a very effective way u can contact the companies of your dream to work at directly. but i guess that the most important step is the first one by getting a presentable resume, so i guess that u can go on an online search many sites provide some great tips about this. finally i wish u the best in finding a new job that matech with your dreams

Answer 3

Well first try helping around the house alot mother in laws love that then go outside and look for a job everyday like if you desperately needed one and dont be so picky about it just dont be proud and youll find a job in no time then when you made enough money you and you mate can move out.

Answer 4

Finding a job should be a high priority for you right no
Finding that job is your #1 job
Save money.
Maybe start a house cleaning business
Or babysit at someones house
You getting out of the house is very important.

Answer 5

You can find a job if you wanted. There are 100's of jobs but you have decided that you want some certain type of job. Take any job your willing to do to start and keep looking for a better one. When you find a better job give notice and move on. Get a job first then worry about where to live......

Answer 6

Just keep trying to find a job. I know it's difficult living with the in-laws, been there, and done that. Try to be very aware of how you behave and treat your in-laws. Make sure they know how much you appreciate all of their help, but that as soon as you're financially able, you will be getting your own place. Times are rough right now, and you're fortunate to have them helping you. Hang in there, you will find a job in time.

Answer 7

You can't find a job or you can't find one you want? Take any job until something else opens up. Fast food restaurants are ALWAYS looking for people. At least you would be making some money. It could help in getting out of her house.

Answer 8

You not saying how come you not getting a job is it because you don't have any job experience or simply because there has not been any replies from your application. You can give your CV to a recruitment agent & also appyl on the net but the no cost one is the agent one. I know how fastrating it is but hang in there you'll finally find something you must pray as well you be answared my dear.Good Luck.

Answer 9

1) Join the military.
2) Look in the newspaper for live-in "babysitters", "nannies" or "caretakers".
3) There are also some places that are like half-way houses and such where they need "den mothers" 24/7.

Answer 10

Keep on trying to get a job - eventually you will succeed. As for living with mother in law, learn to give and take and the situation should improve.

Answer 11

I suppose your names are down on the local council list in the meantime you could hunt around for something like a 1 or 2 bedroomed flat some landlords do take people who are actively looking for work?