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I feel very hurt at my partner, when we go out (although at times he tries to hide it) he looks at other women. I dont expect him to go about with his eyes closed but surely one look is enough? he glances over several times and i hate it when the women realise that he fancies them and flick their hair etc. i feel so inferrior and we have had numerous discussions about it so now i just feel like a neurotic, jealous looney and dont say anything.
However i am then quiet and he dosnt know what he has done!! I honestly think that he dosnt realise he does it otherwise he would cotton on to why i am upset.

In other ways he is perfect but it hurts me so much and i have tried to do what he is doing but he dosnt notice!!! Agh!! Any ideas ?

2007-04-04 23:31:58 · 22 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

22 answers

You must be murder to live with. Do you expect him NOT look in shop windows? - it doesn't mean he's going to BUY anything does it ! ! !

2007-04-04 23:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dover Soles 6 · 0 0

This is a clear sign he has no respect for you. Looking once is fine, we all do it, but to openly flirt with girls whilst you are standing there?? Do not marry him until he realises that he has to start respecting you and then maybe go ahead. Tell him what it is specifically that annoys you, just as you have written here, and if he does not think this is a problem then you have to seriously consider the whole relationship.

2007-04-05 05:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why not speak up when it happens? He seems to be clueless about this! If you have told him how you feel, and yet he has made no effort to change his behavior, ditch him. Yes, men look at attractive women, but you have told him how this hurt your feelings, so he should make more of an effort to not do it or be discreet about it. His inability to curb his behavior to spare your feelings is in indication of either immaturity or a lack of concern for your feelings- both can cause big problems in a relationship. You will NEVER find a man who doesn't 'oogle' other women to some degree or another- but considerate men keep this habit in check around their partner!

2007-04-04 23:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by magy 6 · 0 1

I think it is simply in most men's natures to look at all the women going by. If he shows you in all other ways that you are the only one he wants to be with, then I think you should learn to ignore his looking at other women. I believe that serious jealousy is ultimately a manifestation of one's own sense of insecurity, although a bit of it may act as a lubricant for the relationship.

2007-04-04 23:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by xxxx 4 · 0 0

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2016-11-07 06:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

All men look at other women, and all women look at other men. Dont deny you do it ! Men get caught because their field of vision is narrower and so they have to move their head to focus. A womans wider field of vision helps to avoid detection because she doesnt need to move her head as much. He's what you call flirting to see if he still has ' it '. Probably never entered his head to go further. These other women are just head candy. I would suggest being honest with him telling him to try and stop doing it when you are there and work on your self esteem honey, you are worth it. No you really are!

2007-04-05 13:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by j_clarke2 2 · 0 0

It is normal for men to look at good looking women, however, to do so while your woman is by your side shows how much respect he has for you and will have less in the future on other matters also. If he acts like that while with you, how do you think he acts when your not? DUMP HIM

2007-04-04 23:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

First of all u have to tell him strait how u feel abt it and that u cant accept it. On the other hand - does it matter all that much if he gets his appetite elsewhere but "eats the meal with u" ? - However if u cant accept it (witsh is understandable) - then just let him go and find someone that only gets atracted to u.

2007-04-04 23:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by leifp2000 2 · 0 0

Try looking at a few guys. When you go out with your partner who does he go home with ? YOU.
All men look and any women who thinks or says otherwise is fooling herself, it's part of life and nothing to get stressed about.

2007-04-05 11:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i agree with mammasgo. I had a bloke like that & it led 2 nothing but trouble. years later i realised it was because i lacked self-esteem that i was with him. Its one thing 2 look if he's out on his own, its downright disrespectful 2 ogle if u r with him. If a bloke eyed me with his girl on his arm, id think she was a fool 2 stick with a bloke like that. U deserve better, he'll destroy any self-esteem u have left.

2007-04-08 07:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by happylilpossom 3 · 0 0

Having a glance is one thing but to keep looking over is just disrespectful to you - next time he glances one too many times give him a clip around the ear ;)

2007-04-04 23:38:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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