I found a friend on yahoo answers as he became my fan and his name was automatically entered in my fans list. I contacted him some two weeks ago and developed a nice, decent relationship with him and became his friend. We continued to write to each other. As I don't bother to hide my identity, I told him about myself and used to ask him about himself. But he never told me about that and continued to write to me. He used to address me as my dearest friend. But a few days back, he stopped writing to me and I wondered what went wrong. I want you all to tell me the reason and also that do you think he ditched me? But I am not holding any grudge against him. I found him a nice person.
2007-04-04 23:24:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I adore the way you function, my dearest friend, as I am the one you are talking about. However, you are mistaken that you think I ditched you. (Which is probably guilty feelings that you have about yourself.) Remember, that people sometimes have problems and preoccupations that dont even involve you sometimes. With all love and affection,
yr frnd Jimmy (luv ya)
2007-04-05 15:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he isn't serious enough about making friends with you. I guess he's just 'all nice' but he doesn't have the same wave length as yours towards him, and him to you. Maybe you should just lessen the effort of making friends with him because it seems unfair that you keep on giving him without getting anything in return. But I don't mean that you should stop making friends with him. Just take it easy especially when he's giving that kind of feedback to you. You might only get hurt, like the way you're feeling and thinking right now about him.
2007-04-05 06:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not fret about it. He could have a legite reason for not writing anymore. What worries me is that he could already be married or in a relationship and just playing games. Please I don't think you should be giving out your true identy to strangers on the internet. You have to be careful. Strangers can be anything they want when corresponding with someone on the internet..and totally different in life. That is why I say be careful what information you give them.
2007-04-05 07:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite surprising that all of a sudden he has stopped writing to you. It is he, who can explain the reason. To my mind, he may be busy preparing for his exams or may be unwell. You can write to him (or telephone him) on an occasion or two to find out. In case if he does not respond, forget him and move on. After sending my answer, I felt that he might be having a gf, who would have got jealous (or doubted his fidelity) and to keep her happy, he has stopped writing.
2007-04-05 06:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened here is that you got suckered into thinking that some perfect stranger was a friend of yours. Come on, think about it rationally for a minute, becoming friends in two weeks??? Not possible. Especially not in the make-believe world of the internet.
2007-04-05 06:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think liz got it. 2 weeks and you never saw'im its kinda strange Beware of internet friends don't always stick to them as they may be lyin' on yahoo,It is quite surprising that all of a sudden he has stopped writing to you. It is he, who can explain the reason. To my mind, he may be busy preparing for his exams or may be unwell. You can write to him (or telephone him) on an occasion or two to find out. In case if he does not respond, forget him and move on. After sending my answer, I felt that he might be having a gf, who would have got jealous (or doubted his fidelity) and to keep her happy, he has stopped writing,
I think he isn't serious enough about making friends with you. I guess he's just 'all nice' but he doesn't have the same wave length as yours towards him, and him to you. Maybe you should just lessen the effort of making friends with him because it seems unfair that you keep on giving him without getting anything in return. But I don't mean that you should stop making friends with him. Just take it easy especially when he's giving that kind of feedback to you. You might only get hurt, like the way you're feeling and thinking right now about him. is quite surprising that all of a sudden he has stopped writing to you. It is he, who can explain the reason. To my mind, he may be busy preparing for his exams or may be unwell. You can write to him (or telephone him) on an occasion or two to find out. In case if he does not respond, forget him and move on. After sending my answer, I felt that he might be having a gf, who would have got jealous (or doubted his fidelity) and to keep her happy, he has stopped writing.
2007-04-05 06:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rushit Soni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey lady, move on in life. He was just fascinated by you and thought of speaking to you. He must have been impressed by some answer you had given sometime. But now, by speaking directly, that fascination has worn off and he has lost interest in you. Just lock up this incident in your past and move on. These are just sweet memories to be narrated to your children and grand children in the future.
2007-04-05 06:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by abdulzaheer_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman of 50 . I want to advice you to be careful in having a relationship in the internet, because a lot of girls are being fool. They can make you love them in just few days, and when you are in love with them, they just dissappear.I think the guy must be married. try to avoid him.
2007-04-05 06:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by emma l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be having some problems that you are unaware of. Give it some time. He may even be ill. He may have found a girlfriend that is jealous. I am sure that it had nothing to do with you personally.
2007-04-05 06:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a very valid point here as u r feeling "ditched" ..u know. its how net friendship is differ frm real friendship, its no matter how close u were feeling with each other but ..one bad morning , u may realise that...there is one there , to whom u can atleast questioned.."why u have done so...?"....during my expouser on net, i came to know frm someone that ..how it was hurting him , when some one left him suddenly on net.....
most of the ppl think, net is a kind of virtual platform...so..according their point of view , u r not ditch by him....but as per my point of view ..u r relly ditched , but ..anyways...there r ppl also here , who take net friends seriously..so i m hoping that...u get some one like that on net...anyways..all the best.
2007-04-06 01:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋