pretty embarassing question?

Question

ok....this is pretty embarassing....

I'm a very underexperienced 16 y/o, mind you. Recently there's been certain types of guys that I like & when I see this type, I get aroused and start fantasizing.... I dont know if this is normal but I take it way too far & begin hallucinating about brushing up on them or I secretly stare at them or I even smile provocatively when they sit next to me..... It's not like I have the guts to do anything more but why am I acting like this?

Answer 1

I think its great that you're embrasing your sexuality.

Just stay smart.... dont do anything major until you're ready

Answer 2

Honey that is normal for your age and for mine. Fantasizing is great, being sexually aroused is a good thing, and feeling the feelings you have is okay. You are new to your sexuality so enjoy it. But remember it can be used as a weapon if you are not careful. Many armies and countries have fallen due to a woman. Nice huh.

Answer 3

Its normal at your age and as you get older, single or married, man or woman. We all fantasize at times. I do and I am 22 and married. As long as you don't let it take over, don't act on it. Just keep it to your self. Every woman wants to think of herself as sexy or provocative once in awhile, doesn't mean that we are going to act it out all the time.

Answer 4

Its called hormones and puberty. You are developing and growing up. Please dont take it any further but if you do, use protection such as condoms. Remember condoms cannot protect you from HERPES. HPV is attacking a lot of women who develop ovarian Cancer. If you are in trouble go to plan parenthood or to the hospital. Please think less about boys and more about education. Keep your mind on the books. Go to college and graduate school. Become a doctor, be independent, start a career. Think about boys after you graduate from college. This is what I will tell my kids. I am just trying to KEEP it REAL.

Answer 5

Its your hormones working overtime. Dont worry this is all very normal especially at your age. When you are ready you can act on your feelings, dont feel pressured to do so. You will know when the time is right for you

Answer 6

I had the same thing happen to me at age 16/17. It's all hormone related and because of it how crushes are born.

Answer 7

I'm not sure what you mean by "hallucinating", but everyone has fantasies like you describe from time to time, (some more that others), whether they admit it or not. That is perfectly normal to think about someone you are attracted to like that. Don't worry about it.

Answer 8

My little cousin, she's like my sister is 13 and she does the same thing when she's around the skater boys. It's just your hormones. And I can't guarantee that you'll ever stop because sometimes I find myself doing the same thing...and I'm 21.

Answer 9

ok the instructor incredibly screwed up there. She wouldn't have completed that. Grrr..I hate instructors like that. Kinda sounds like my math instructor. are not getting indignant by ability of what human beings say. I mean whether you nevertheless like josh slightly, there is not any element in denying it. yet while josh is thinking that it is your fault, tell him its no longer. Its the lecturers. you may desire to paintings it out with him. i'm so sorry for you

Answer 10

because your 16, horny and hormonal! thats the best way i can describe it, and honey your not alone, everyone male or female does this! once those hormones kick in, that's the kind of stuff that happends, even when your older!!(personal experince im 22)