how hard is getting pregnant?

Question

My husband and I have been trying since January. Still nothing! Is it really this hard?

Answer 1

For women under 35 in perfect health and regular periods it may take them up to one full year of actively trying before they get pregnant. Actively trying= charting cycles, intercourse every other-day starting on day 10. If you can't wait the full year, see your GYN and discuss other options. Have your hormones tested... Clomid Challenge Testing... Seamen analysis... Good Luck.

Answer 2

Everyone's journey to building a family is different, but 3 months of trying is nothing. There are kits you can buy (and books as well) that help you pick the best time to try for pregnancy. Your doctor can help you find those, too. They aren't hard to do. But if you ultimately don't get pregnant, don't dispair. There are many children in the world who need loving families that are just waiting for you. Good luck.

Answer 3

It's not hard to get pregnant. Have you guys checked to see if both of you are fertile? Have you been on the pill for a long period of time? Are you stressing over getting pregnant. The reason why I ask these questions is because it is different for every woman. I was on birthcontrol pills for 8 years, I went off of it in August and was pregnant early December. My girlfriend was off the pills for a while and it took them almost a year to get pregnant. And I find that if you stress over being pregnant then it takes your body longer to get pregnant. When we decided to have children, I just went off the pill and let nature take it's course. My thought going through it was if it happens it happens. Good luck. Don't stress over it too much, it's only April 5, you've only been trying for 3 months. Take care and take your prenatals.

Answer 4

That is only a couple of months. The average time for a couple to concieve is five or six months, and it may take longer than that. I will assume that you are both young and healthy otherwise. Keep track of your periods, write them down and keep track of the times you have sex and for now, the best thing to do is relax and enjoy the experience. Most doctors dont consider it a problem until you have tried for a year without success.

Answer 5

Usually when you are trying hard, it's hard to get pregnant. When you are not ready, it comes easily to conceive. Well put aside the matter. Enjoy yourself with your partner. Make sure you lie down for at least 15min after intercourse. Get this informative site. It is useful for married adult.

Answer 6

It all depends on your method and if there is any medical things stopping you. But one thing is not to stress over it. It took me and my hubby almost 4 years. I have PCOS which makes it harder to conceive. But taking your BBT every morning at the same time before getting out of bed is helpful along with ovulation tests.

Answer 7

No, it's just pot luck love!
I got pregnant the very first month with my son and now after 12 months and one miscarriage, am still not pregnant.
Someone explain that to me....
Plus I would not be panicking if I were you, It's only been 3 months??

Answer 8

everyone is different. Personally I didn't plan any of my pregnancies.. but I know a girl that concieved after 11 years! Everyone is different. They say not to even think 2'ce about it.. a year is normal

Answer 9

i know someone who is having the same problem. um i think u guys should go get checked by the doctor ..hopefully nothing is wrong but u never know)..I think it's usually the guy's fault..but I wouldn't know lol

Answer 10

dun try too hard.. the harder you try, the more pressure for you and your husband.. let things happen naturally.. remember Murphy's Law