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I've been feeling kinda bad about myself lately.

Give me your honest opinion-- am I ugly?

What could I do to better myself?

What do you like about me the most?

Anything else left to say before you go?

2007-04-04 16:06:48 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

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2007-04-04 16:07:19 · update #1

Awww, thanks, guys! You brightened my day. :)

2007-04-04 16:20:42 · update #2

Gah, I love my makeup, though. And my clothes. It's part of who I am. Thanks, anyways. :)

Guys at my school don't really like me.

2007-04-04 16:22:06 · update #3

41 answers

You are a very pretty girl.
Your eyes are striking.
Do yourself a favor. Do not go down a path of asking random people on a forum like this to validate your worth.
There may be many good people here but you do not know these people and you can not trust them.
Don't allow people who may or may not have your best interest in mind to affect (good or bad) you self image.

2007-04-04 16:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by ronjambo 4 · 2 0

This is an honest opinion from an older guy who has had relationships with more women than I can count (that's not a boast, it's not even a matter to be proud of - it just is) and I would not call you beautiful. But I have a problem with defining 'beautiful' and truly believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder (e.g I think Paris Hilton is butt-ugly). What I see in your photos is a cute, attractive and interesting face. You have lovely eyes - an amazing color - and very inviting lips! Some people may say your nose is a little too big but I think that having all perfect features is rather boring and 'plasticky' so facially I wouldn't change a thing. Look what happened to Jennifer Grey when she had a nose job (do you even remember who she is?).
What you can do to better yourself is to have self-confidence and pride - which doesn't come across in the photos. Stand tall and smile, girl, and you'll be a knock-out! If ony I was younger!

2007-04-04 16:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.

You are NOT as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday. Don't waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.

Be nice to your siblings; they are your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

one more thing YES!!!! u r but i think you must know that... if you dont -YOU R!!!!!

2007-04-04 17:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Billy Kapp 2 · 1 0

You are a very pretty girl, and while it sounds hokey, the best thing you could do to make yourself better is have confidence. Easier said than done, I know, but little things can help you feel better about yourself; from something as complicated as focusing on your most positive qualities to something as simple as a new haircut, being comfortable and happy with yourself will encourage others to do the same. This is a whole process, though, so if you want something easy and short-term, you might want to rethink the heavy makeup on your eyes if you do that as an every day thing - you have very nice eyes, and instead of covering them up with layers of dark makeup, you should accentuate them and let your natural beauty come through.

2007-04-04 16:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Aww, I'm sorry you feel bad, but you are pretty. You kind of look my sister, which means yes, you are pretty. And you have pretty eyes, although, the color is the same as mine so I am kind of prejudice =) You have the goth look going on, just like my sister. The look wouldn't work for me, but it doesn't matter. If you like it, the that's the only thing that counts. I hope you cheer up.

EDIT: Oh, and if the guys at school don't like you, then forget them. Find a guy with a personality that compliments yours. The best guys you can meet aren't the ones you see in school everyday, they are the ones you just bump into somewhere. I wish it wasn't so, but some people are going to judge you on the way you dress and the make-up you wear. They are just close minded. But if there is a place in your town that people with your sense of style hang out, then go there with your friends. That's where my sister met her current bf. The "goth kids" hang out at our mall on the weekends.

2007-04-04 16:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by bamagrad07 2 · 1 0

I personally think that you're really pretty. Promise with all my heart. I think that maybe you could not go with the eyeshadow and liner and maybe just mascara to give the eys a more defined look...they are really gorgeous. All that ey makeup kinda takes away from it. You're lips are also a pretty natural color. I like it. And don't feel bad about yourself! There's no sense in that since you're pretty!!! Hope this was a little help! :)
<3 Haley

2007-04-04 16:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Little Miss Smiley :) 3 · 1 0

i think u need to stop that. think of yourself as a lovely person, dont hate yourself because u may have found some flaw or whatever. Hopefully no one will give u a bad opinion on yahoo. but u should ask urself ur own opinion, because at the end u r the one that matters. hope this helps have a good day.

2007-04-04 16:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_jemise 4 · 1 0

you are anything but ugly! do you know how many girls would kill for the opportunity to work with what you've got?

i know you say you like the black but, try to get away from it now and then. it can make you look harsh and intimidating to others. i think it may be overshadowing your natural beauty. you have such a cute face but those types of clothes will always draw attention away from it.

i agree that i love your eyes and i like your eyeshadow. try a little bit more lipstick.

always remember that throughout your life, your style, the way you put yourself together and the way you present yourself will always color people's view of you. think about your goals and what you are trying to achieve whenever putting yourself together. remember that for most people, you are what you present and their opinion is likely to stop there.

good luck to you and cheer up, sweetie..... you've lots to be happy about.

2007-04-04 17:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not ugly at all! You actually remind me of one of the gals that had a show at the college radio station where I started out a few years ago. I love those shoes too :)

2007-04-04 16:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by Danagasta 6 · 1 0

You're just fine the way you are. There are two things you could do to help yourself. One is to always look inside yourself (Character, Personality, Heart, and Mind) because those are important. The other is to just always be yourself because if you just be yourself, you don't have to worry about what other people might be thinking about you. What I like about you is you are reaching out and asking what you can do to help yourself. Hope this helps.

2007-04-04 16:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by super682003 4 · 1 0

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