are these women being fair?

Question

a lot of women are annoyed when unattractive guys flirt with them and act like the guys are being jerks. but when an attractive guy or a teenager flirts with a woman she's ok with it and a lot of times likes it. of course, guys would not be turned on if an unattractive woman flirts with them, but they wouldn't be rude or act like the woman is being a 'jerk'. and i'm talking about flirting in a non-suggestive way.

my question is, why do women get offended? is it just wrong for a guy to flirt if he looks a certain way? do they want guys to think 'oh i'm ugly i probably shouldn't talk to women'? are these women being fair? i want your personal opinion.

do any of you ever stop to think that some women might just be shallow? i find it rather easy to admit to myself that most GUYS out there are pretty shallow. why is it so hard for you people?

unless of course you fit into the category i'm describing.... nobody likes to admit they're shallow.

Answer 1

you know..not all women are like that at all...it seems like u have such a negative view of them...i dont blame you!...i cant really relate to the women who treat the ugly as ulgy..but..i think they do that cuz they only see things fom their level..anything blow them is a complete waist of time...it's very rare that you will find a girl that settles for less....girls are just more into themselves..i mean they play with perfect barbie when they are small...while guys play with ugly action figures...we have differing outlooks on life....girls tend to expect more from others....why?...that remians a mystery even to me

Answer 2

I am bi. It is hard to hit on a woman. Men are much easier. When I was not married I tried to hit on a few women and they can be very difficult. It is tough being turned down by a woman. I got a real feeling of pity for men. I used to be like that toward men. What went through my head was; "GEESH! I'm just trying to have a nice time w/ my friends and you gotta bug me? If I am nice to this guy he may become a nuisance. But if I do it quick and painfully it will be over and he will leave me the heck alone!"
There are a variety of reasons women do this. But you need to remember your lucky! Cause you just dodged the biitch bullet relationship wise.
Lisa

Answer 3

Showing genuine interest in a person is fine. Flirting to me is totally selfish and really has nothing to do with the other person other then trying to gain attention for yourself and control over the other person. Genuine interest is attractive to me. Flirting can be obnoxious and rude whether the person is attractive or not. Beauty is in the character and spiritual depth of a person. I have known many attractive looking men that were ugly in their character and I would not want that for a potential mate. Mmm

Answer 4

90% of my friends are shallow, and I have been too. But to say that men would not be turned off is just not true. I've flirted with guys who just give me a dirty look or just ignore me because I'm not like my 100 lb party girl friends. It goes both ways. Shallow is not gender specific.

It's the type of women you are choosing to flirt with...

Answer 5

that doesn't substitute the incontrovertible fact that an ever increasing style of guys are out earned by their women individuals. lots of those men do handle extra of the kinfolk chores. only the different day 2 of my lady co-workers boasted that their husbands do lots of the housekeeping. It quite does take place. issues are changing and changing rapid. single women individuals out earn single men. expert, college knowledgeable women individuals out earn men in substantial cities like vast apple, l. a., Chicago, Boston, Dallas and so on... by 2010 women individuals will administration 60% of the wealth interior the united states of a. women individuals start up small agencies at a fee of two-a million over men. women individuals are growing to be as a skill yet nevertheless have not overtaken men on the ideal tiers. provide it a sprint time. In ten years the bbc articles may be shockingly different. Us men would be complaining approximately having to do lots of the cooking and cleansing.

Answer 6

I think women are good at making men feel guilty or not good enough; it doesn't matter if he's right or wrong. They use that little trick in every situation. They use it when aren't getting what they want and they use it when they're offered something they don't want. It's like a kid who doesn't want to eat his dinner. It kind of makes me wonder if there is truth in what they say; that "women mature faster". They cry and have tantrums and are comforted by all their buddies. If a guy does that, he will be ridiculed. It's the curse of the c*ck. I may be wrong, but it doesn't matter because I got 2 points anyway.

Answer 7

I get offended when any guy bothers to flirt with me. I don't care if he looks like Brad Pitt.
I'm married and I am not interested in having any extra-marital affair.
When I was single, I didn't like most of the men who flirted. Some of them came on too strong and it made them look sleazy.
I prefer a man who is a gentleman. Someone who gets to know you before flirting.

Answer 8

They are not annoyed, they are totally uninterested. You can bet your bottom dollar that if they reply rudely, it's because the attempt at flirting was done in a crude way. Either that, or they are exasperated over repeated attempts from someone who can't take the hint the first time.

Answer 9

You keep asking the same kinds of questions, and quite frankly its very annoying, and leads me to believe that you are not getting the attention you want because you whine. Nobody likes a whiner, you could be the nicest guy ever, but begin that whining and your finished before youve even begun.

Answer 10

don't flirt. that is not the way to meet the girl of your dreams. you can not ever predict the reaction a woman will have...some of them just aren't very nice, and no they aren't fair. you can't control that though. be yourself, don't try too hard, and some day it will happen for you. flirting is never a good way to start!