Ok I like girls and guys.It seems like I'm more attracted to boys that girls even If I do have a girlfriend.There is one boy in my class
that I'm really attracted to.He kinda looks at me at times and he is really quit around me and I just have the feeling that he really likes me and it was kinda strange for me at first,but now I feel like I really like him.He is always trying to be close to me.What should I do any signs or signals that a boy likes you?
2007-04-04 15:19:45 · 11 answers · asked by little_small 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Should I try to do something?Everyone says that I'm so nice looking like they're saying that I'm gay.Is it my fault that they think I look nice??Please give me some advice to make him get even closer to me
2007-04-04 15:22:20 · update #1
I'm not sex attracted or anything I just seem to LIKE him nothing more
2007-04-04 15:25:26 · update #2
..you know what's really cute? your 0.5 there (in your 13.5 y.o) ^__^.
Nway, to answer your question.. It IS possible to actually like someone of your own sex without trying to compartmentalize it to being gay or not or whatever. It's alright to feel affectionate or close to someone without worrying on your sexuality preferences... And this goes for whatever age you are.
there's a reason why it's called 'sexuality PREFERENCE'.. coz you PREFERRED to have SEXUAL intercourse with opposite/same/both gender for continuous number of times (not just for one-time-just-experimenting thing).
If you LIKE someone (regardless of their gender), that just mean... well, you just like them.. It's fine not to have any reason at all.
You're kinda young to actually define what's your sexuality preference is.. so, relax and just take it as it goes.
2007-04-04 15:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Criztalinz 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Maybe you're gay, maybe not. Maybe he is, maybe not. It's a little early to tell. At your age, you still like to be with other guys and EVERYTHING turns you on now. Get to know each other a lot better and just let things go where they go, but please be prepared for the fact that he just wants to be friends. Or if something physical happens between you, don't panic, it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. The older you get, the more you'll know for sure.
2007-04-04 16:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are going through adolescence and shouldn't label yourself as gay or straight. Gay or straight are just words that describe attraction, and in a few years you will be more certain of who you are attracted to. You shouldn't try to do something until you are more sure of yourself and that is going to take a few more years, so don't try to rush things so much. Just because other people are saying you might be gay because you are nice looking means nothing at all. Give it a few years until you are more certain of who you are attracted to.
2007-04-04 15:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You have like 4 questions mushed in there! First off, congrats on being aware of your feelings. Just explore them within yourself, and at 13 (1/2 doesn't count over like 6 or 7) you probably don't want to date yet. Focus on you, become as much of "you" as you can, and then go to a good college with a good gay or Bi population.
2007-04-04 15:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
You're fine. Calm down. Talk to your school counselor.
In the meantime, there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi or straight. It's okay.
2007-04-05 06:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by inactive account 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thirteen. This is a time when people really do go through phases. Wait til you're two years into puberty to start trying to examine your sexuality. Otherwise you'll think you're gay or straight or whatever when you're probably not. Just wait it out and all will become clear.
2007-04-04 15:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
umm are you sure he's gay? he might be looking at you because he's thinking "why is this dude staring at me?" if you know he is, go for it. this might be a little hard for your family to grip, though. Sometimes it's especially hard for fathers. Best of luck!
2007-04-04 16:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Zealotta 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to define your attraction to people in general.
Is it physical? mental? emotional? logical?
Why do you like who you do? Do some thinking before coming to a decision.
2007-04-04 16:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're pretty sexually attracted to him...but you are only 13.5 years old...you've got a ways to go before you are hard and fast (so to speak ) in your sexuality.
2007-04-04 15:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't do anything to make him close to you, you still young enough to date or etc...,..
Good luck.
2007-04-04 15:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anry 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋