I find it totally wrong and very hippocritical. I think it is so messed up how many women go around playing the harlot and then when they having their wedding want to wear white.
2007-04-04 10:40:58 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i think it is wrong. good luck.
2007-04-04 10:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think it is more of a tradition now a days. The same as carrying flowers or having a cake. I don't think it needs to be taken so literally. Although, you make a good point. I never realized that they wore white as an "honor". I thought it was more of a representation. I don't think it is wrong if a women decides to wear white. I will note however I did wear white and I was not a virgin. I didn't really want to wear white (I wanted a dress with some color to it). I felt pressured to. I was taught that women who wore off white or ivory were the ones who should feel shame. I'm not sure what to think now. Very good question.
2016-05-17 06:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are partly correct, but why call other women harlots or names at all does that make you feel better in some way, you don't have to do that to raise your self esteem find a different way. I do think that you are correct that a white wedding dress was actually meant for a virgin, it was a symbol of something sacred the pureness and so what?
2007-04-04 12:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your point, but men should stay out of wedding planning. Its a sure way to madness and frustration. Let the bride wear what she wants and everybody will be happy. What is more scary is the prices that women pay to look the virgin. Those dresses are too expensive. Everything about weddings is messed up, really. Except the vows. Those are good if adhered to.
2007-04-04 10:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Chairman LMAO 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think its hypocritical to think that anyone would have to be a virgin to wear white on their wedding day.
i wonder why society thinks its so OK for a guy to have experience but not a woman.... why does a woman wear a color to reflect her virginity or lack of it but not a man.
society is hypocritical. so get over it.
a wedding is a woman's day.
she lives for it her whole life.
it should be whatever she wants it to be.
the guy is lucky he was even invited. he should shut up and appreciate that he's even there.
and thank his lucky stars he found a woman willing to take is sorry behind into her life...
sorry guys.... dont mean to throw you all under the bus like that... i just think this question is just one more sign of how women get a bad shake in life.
and how so many men are such narrow minded sexist ignorant self centered pigs.
man.... i love my woman !!!!!!
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2007-04-04 11:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by HB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LMAO! Go back to school and learn how to spell and compose a sentence properly and THEN come back here and have a debate about 'hippocritical' behavior of 'the harlot'.
Good luck finding a real virgin, completely untouched. I wonder what fantasy land you live in.
2007-04-04 10:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've never heard of that. I always thought wearing white was just tradition. So I don't think it's wrong to wear white. So many people do it. I don't think changing the color is going to change anything, necessarily so I ain't really worried about it. I ain't gonna judge a woman by that.
2007-04-04 10:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by prettylibra 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wore white when I got married and I wasn't a virgin. It was my first marriage and I lost my virginity to the man I married. I don't find that hypocritical. These days the white is more out of tradition than actual symbolism. I do think that if it's the second marriage (or third or fourth) that a cream or off-white color would be more appropriate.(also, it's really hard to find an off-white colored dress that doesn't look dirty, I noticed that when I was shopping for my dress)
2007-04-04 10:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Shell 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no they probably shouldn't, but now days i think it is more of a tradition than anything.
I mean heck if the only women that could wear white dresses were virgins, then hardly anyone would wear white anymore!
2007-04-05 12:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ ltlsunny ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's totally inane. No body has the right to dictate to anyone else what is acceptable for their wedding day? Some traditions are honorable and preferable but certainly not that one. It's nobody's business except the people getting married.
2007-04-04 10:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by sarge 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I dont see a problem with them wearing white I see it kind of wrong for them to wear a veil over their face but my personal theroy is to each his own. More power to them if they dont care what ppl think on their wedding day. It is their day after all they can do what they want really.
2007-04-04 10:46:29 · answer #11 · answered by The nu cancer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋