It's a common fantasy and some couples act on it into a real experience. This question is sort of 2 part. How did you plan for your first threesome and then how did the experience compare with the expectation you had? Maybe a third question, did both of you pursue another threesome again?
2007-04-04 09:40:15 · 18 answers · asked by arealtruefeeling 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-04-05 06:45:03 · update #1
I very much respect the views of folks who don't fantasize about or desire to try a threesome. This question is for those who do and have. I'm also not a proponent of this and I'm not looking to encourage others one way or the other.
I do believe that folks fantasize about this more than they care to admit, even if they absolutely would never do it. So it's just a question and not an effort to impose on anyone elses views.
In reading some of the responses I've gotten so far, I get the impression this is more of a 20-something sort of thing. Anyone doing this at later ages or have a long lasting threesome relationship?
2007-04-05 06:52:45 · update #2
No, it wasn't planned. I was hanging out with my best friend and her boyfriend and we had been drinking. They started fooling around in front of me, and I joked that I was horny and all alone. LOL The next thing I knew the three of us were having sex all night. It was a blast, and the first of MANY more.
2007-04-06 15:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Nekkid Kelly 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-31 07:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Was your first threesome planned and if so how did it go?
It's a common fantasy and some couples act on it into a real experience. This question is sort of 2 part. How did you plan for your first threesome and then how did the experience compare with the expectation you had? Maybe a third question, did both of you pursue another threesome again?
2015-08-19 08:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jeb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 21:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this is a Bisexual male story
Actually, my first threesome was in my late teens, and it was not really what you could call, "planned". I was at a party and we had some alcohol flowing in the scene(yes, we were both a bit tipsy, but not drunk to the point where reality was altered), and I decided with my girlfriend at the time, let's have sex, I will wear a condom, and she said it was fine, so we went to a back room somewhere in the house, and it was vacant.
So we went on ahead and well you know...
And what do you know, some other people decide to have sex also in the room with us, so it was more like an orgy or foursome, and not to mention it was a friend of mine with his girlfriend. So we had our little "festivities" and the women decided that my friend and I were too scared to have sex with each other.
Okay, so I decided to have sex with one of my really good male friends, just to prove them wrong, so my friend and I had sex and we proved the women wrong, wasn't really for love it was "friendly" sex.
I don't really regret it, but since then my male friend and I still maintain a good relationship today, however, the women, well we don't keep in touch much anymore.
Hope that helps you.
2007-04-04 10:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Been there, done that. It was planned (the first one). If you're in a committed relationship and you or your partner is not willing to do "no strings attached", it will come back to haunt you later on, when feelings start developing between your partner and the 3rd person, and then you come home from work early and find those two together in your bed. My personal experience. Never again.
2007-04-04 09:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by I_color_outside_the_lines 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually mine was not planned at all!!!!
one of my sex dates called me over and while we were having sex half way through he tells me all of a sudden that one of his friends are coming and he is a real nice guy and blah and blah and if i say no he would understand!!!!!
but i really couldn't say no........
i agreed but not with full heart!!!
ever since that i have had 3 to 4 threesome experiences......
but all were not planned and which i was ore of compelled to do so as a favor for my date or something.....
i sometimes feel so low that i actually did a 3some....
its simply not me.............
its very less romantic and i feel so uncomfortable while doing... but just try to act normal and cool.... and it all Will be some pron performance or something.....
2007-04-09 17:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by remooooo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you are doing in my opinion is absolutely right. I can understand how much trust she had on you to express that kind of fantasy to you and same time she understood you feeling, that how you will feel even though you said yes to that and that’s the reason why she said to have female partner once as well. I think you both will be happy if you just did it once and don’t discuss about it much later. I would like to recommend calling someone who both of you don’t know before, even you know the person you are calling now very much. and as a advice be sure he got same or less size than you
2016-03-17 05:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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If you have a strong marriage then you should be able to sit down and discuss it without any issues. If you do decide to go ahead (sounds like you might) then make sure the other man wears a condom. Being safe is a real basic!
2016-04-03 21:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't plan these things it has to be spontaneous else it's feels uncomfortable.At least in my experience anyway.Well,actually maybe to some extent it is a little planned cuz it's always been out drinking and dancing which leads to flirting and you get the idea hahaha! :P
2007-04-04 10:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋