Okay so first of all I am not gf/bf with this guy, he is like 13 and I am like 14. He is a really nice guy and we are very open talking about things. We are really just friends so we can talk about alot of things. We started asking each other about things and I asked him if he had ever j**ked off and he said yes and I asked if I could see it sometime and he agreed and then after we talked he even said I could do that to him. A couple of questions 1) do you think this will ruin our friendship 2) am I wierd because I want to do this or do other girls want to watch this? Please only serious answers
2007-04-04 09:20:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anna J 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
He wants to use you. Please tell me that you have more self-esteem than that.
2007-04-04 09:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by JenJen 6 · 5⤊ 4⤋
guy responce - if you do this, the guy, no matter how good friends you are, will tell everyone he knows about it after. Everyone he tells is going to repeat it. It will go around you're school with furious velocity. this'll happen because he is 13 years old. You're folks'll will probably find out. and you'll be called nasty things. However it's not wrong, it's natural, you are probably too young, but kids are growing up quicker blah blah blah, and it's exciting right?, you'll be ahead of the game, experienced more, covered more ground. if you really want to do it that bad - do it.
Inregards to the friendship, one of three things could happen. either he is going to expect this from you - probably nag and **** about it, make you feel guilty, go on and on and on - secondly he could never talk to you again especially if he gets embarrased during. thirdy things'll be werid for a while and then eventually get back to normal. good luck. this is just one persons opinion - don't do it, unless it's that important that you **** you're life for it.
2007-04-05 19:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by zissou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy friend wants you to help him j*** off, wouldn't you think that's more than just friends? It's totally taking the whole relationship to the next level. It could either A. ruin it or B. give you guys a new experience. Some girls probably want to watch guys do it anyways.
2007-04-04 09:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you would like a mixture of opinions for this one.. in fact I think a guys opinion is needed here too. In my opinion, and many here, it will just ruin the friendship. Instead of saying "yes" say "No" and that you aren't that kind of girl. You where just curious at the time. It could turn ugly and you wouldn't want that. He may tell other people that you jerked him off and how would that make you feel? Take my advice and don't bother. You're only 14 anyway you have plenty of time for all this. I'm 17 now and I've learnt from experience. If you want to keep the friendship I insist you don't do it. My opinion.
2007-04-04 09:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by chris c 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It is not weird to want to do this but I think you are a little young to start being sexual with someone. However that is the safest form of sex. It could lead to you losing your virginity early than you'd like to. If you have thought it through, Id say go for it. But when you mix sex with friends there is always the risk of ruining a friendship.
2007-04-04 09:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, that message is a lot to long. And to be honest slightly to lots. And in case you do no longer blame him for dropping interest why even write him this long text cloth? in case you go with to jot down something, purely tell him you have no longer heard from in a minute and you have been purely making specific he replaced into interior the better of well being. And which you enjoyed the time you spent with him and for him to drop you a line sometime. If he remains into you he will text cloth. it truly is thank you to lots do no longer deliver it. sturdy luck !
2016-11-26 02:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be thinking of that. Worry about other things. But I think this friendship will turn out to be more serious then you think because it will total change everything after the first time and it will probably continue. So i think that you shouldn't do it, its too risky.
2007-04-04 09:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Luna_5 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are not weird and being curious is natural. I would let him take care of that himself. If you do assist you may feel uncomfortable seeing him afterwards which could ruin your friendship. Keep it friends. Its ok to be curious but to act on it is another thing. =)
Listen to chris c...he is so right.
2007-04-04 09:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it will ruin you friendship. No it is not weird for you to want to do this either.
2007-04-04 09:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by celesice 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes this will definitely ruin your friendship....youre not weird at all, but you are too young to be doing things like this...especially to a friend...maybe you should wait til you are married to engage in this...
2007-04-04 09:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by wolvie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everybody needs a good hand job every now and then...
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2007-04-04 09:25:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋