Ok well it is spring break and I was away for 3 days in Virginia this is one of 3 vacations I will take this year. I have to go with my family because I am only 15. We own a condo renting bussiness in Ocean City and we often have to go down to clean and renevate the condos. There is a problem, though, my boyfriend gets mad at me for going away. He says I am spoiled for going away so much but I have no control over what my family does. I tell him the condo bussiness is something the whole family has to help with and he says he understands. But then he just gets mad at me every time I go away. I know he misses me when I leave but we still constantly talk on the phone. We get into fights about this. What should I do?
2007-04-04 09:00:45 · 18 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
uh, yeah like you really have a lot of options. tell your boyfriend that he needs to get a grip. Your 15 and not really in a position to tell your family that your not going on the family vacation with them this year. He can try to pull that crap in another 3 years and maybe he'll get better results.
Nothing is creepier than a possessive boy.
2007-04-04 09:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you sense approximately your boyfriend? in case you have any reliable thoughts for the guy, you're unlikely to love me calling your boyfriend a immediately up fool. does not he understand that considering which you're in basic terms 15 years previous that your mothers and fathers can take you everywhere interior the international they desire to take you and there is not any longer a element he can say or do approximately it? till you're over the age of 18 and can be legally emancipated out of your mothers and fathers, that's the way it is. If he can not understand which you are going to be back, then you certainly certainly would desire to exceedingly think of approximately removing this guy. If he's 15 or sixteen, how does one get to be possessive like that? this would desire to function a crimson flag in how he deals with being different than for others.
2016-11-07 05:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by javoronkov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is jealous you have a richer family... that is a tuff thing to overcome. I'm sure he just wants to be with you 24/7/365 this is a nice thing. a lot of guys don't care, sounds like he does. try asking your P's if he can come with. you never know, they may think u r ready to have a bf and he probably could help out with cleaning and renovating and this way he can see you really r working. don't dump him, unless you think he is bad about other things, no one is perfect and you will never find the perfect guy. it is easy to get in a pattern of dumping a guy the first sign of trouble. it is harder (and far more rewarding) to work on the relationship together.
2007-04-05 06:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Billy Kapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's overprotective. Maybe he thinks you'll meet someone else?
Sit down and talk with him, ask him how he feels when you leave and why he doesn't like it. Tell him you're sorry but you don't have a choice, because you're 15, and it's fun to get away once in a while, but you miss him. Try not to start yelling, just calmly talk. Maybe you'll figure out why he doesn't want you to leave.
2007-04-04 09:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Brittani♫. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reecy had the best answer i thought. if you are 15, you go where the fam tells you. i had a controlling bf when i was 16 and it wasn't fun. i really liked him, but i liked me more. best to you.
2007-04-04 13:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by mbs4174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes to controlling dump him or you will be miserable for the rest or your free life...go on your vacation spend time with your family, boy friends come and go... good luck
2007-04-04 09:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wish him a nice life and find yourself someone who isn't a complete and total control freak.
2007-04-04 09:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Iggy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grow up if you want to be in a grown up relationship you have to be able to not get stupid over things you have no control over.you do what you have to and don't worry your pretty little head about stupid little boys.
2007-04-04 09:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young for this heavy relationship and life is WAAAAYY too short for all that tension.
You are not the one with the problem he is.
2007-04-04 09:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that dependency is a good quality but who am I to say?
2007-04-04 09:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by think_of_the_bubble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋