If you think a baby at 19 years old will complete your life, you are a little misguided. It is truly a blessing from God, but in reality they still require so much attention, care, love and financial support, etc. . .. I certainly hope you thought this through, thoroughly, and sought advice from those who are close to you because at 19 there is so much more you can do in life before having children, believe me. I am 31 and pregnant with my first child and chose this time in my life to become pregnant after getting married, establishing a successful career and traveling the world. Its not that you cannot do this with a child at 19, and I'm not discouraging you, its your choice and one that you and the father and baby alone must deal with for a life time. But if you can wait, I suggest you do so. Find a hobby or something else you really enjoy doing and then see if perhaps you still want to have a baby 1 year from now. And, if possible, babysit for a week and see what life is like with the responsibility of caring for a child, and then afterwards when you can give the child back. When you have your own, there is no giving back, he or she is yours for life, God willing.
Best of luck.
2007-04-04 09:45:20
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answered by hme 1
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Are you married?
If not please wait..... a child needs to have a Two Parent family. It is unfair and selfish otherwise.
Second.... Relax. Over anxiety can actually cause you to have more problems with fertility.
So you don't have a baby while you are 19. You have at least 20 more years to have a family. In the mean time. Enjoy your life. A baby will change Everything when it comes.
2007-04-04 09:05:13
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answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7
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Try www.askdramy.com to find out your fertile days and ovulation days(the days you or more than likely to concieve.You could also try feeling your cervix to see if its low and soft and your cervical muscus to see if its clear and stretchy.These are good times to try and concieve.Also try Babycenter.com or search the internet for trying to conceive.
2007-04-04 09:39:12
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answered by •´`·.·´`•Mother.To`·.Be•´`·.·´`• 3
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change your screen name from the devil , to something positve, then maybe you will become pregnant
2007-04-04 09:20:36
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answered by octavia137 3
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try having sex 15 days after your 1st period!
2007-04-04 09:14:40
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answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5
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I'm assuming you've tried sex?
2007-04-04 09:00:47
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answered by maddie1979 3
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