is it safe and healthy for the baby and parents if its an unplanned pregnancy? I think I could be my husband and I weren't planing on having a baby just yet he just came home from a business trip and when I saw him I thought I was going to faint he asked what's wrong and I didn't think about the possibility at the time so I told him it was the excitement of him being home and missing him has made it hard to sleep we are both 29 but have only been married since December 2006 so far we are doing pretty well in the financial part of life what should I do?
2007-04-04 06:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Be excited and go with the flow! Unplanned pregnancy isn't going to affect the health of your little one. Just do what you need to financially and health wise and good luck! Life's a road of unexpected swoops, turns, hills, dips and bumps so hang on and just enjoy it :-)
2007-04-04 06:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it comes down to negligence. I was on the pill when I fell pregnant so it was a complete accident but I do feel some negligence as I was warned that having a tummy bug can stop it from working and I didn't take any other precautions. There are so many questions on here about people not using anything and risking it then finding out they are pregnant when not wanted. I don't regret getting pregnant but if you don't want a child then make sure it doesn't happen. Like you said there are so many services and advice for preventing pregnancy so why is there so many unplanned babies in the world. I have heard of women using abortions as birth control which I find shocking. At the end of the day if you really don't want a baby then protect yourself.
2016-05-17 05:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by patrice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most pregnancies happen unexpected. Be happy that you are atleast MARRIED and doing pretty well in the financial part. There are women out there who get pregnant at 14, 15 unexpectedly and they still grow up to have a great and beatiful life and baby! Dont worry, even if you are pregnant, it MIGHT bring worries and stress only in the begining! Once everyone gets over it, you , your husband and family will be MORE THAN happy to be having a new baby in the family!!! Unexpected babies are the best! It brings wonderful joy to the family! If you are pregnant, take it one step at a time and everything will be great!!! You will see how happy you will be that you got pregnant to begin with! Just remember, everything happens for a reason! Goodluck!
2007-04-04 06:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by curious789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! I am in the same boat! I am 35, was on the depo shot and got pregnant! My hubby and I have only been married since October 2006! This is my first child and although unplanned, it's still our child and there is no way we could just get rid of it! My advice is to relax and enjoy your pregnancy!
Very best wishes!
2007-04-04 06:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by gracie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is safe.. women deal safely with unplanned pregnancies all the time!
As for healthy? Well, if an unplanned pregnancy causes stress and discomfort in your family, then no, it's not all that healthy.
2007-04-04 06:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by mornnglry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its safe and the only thing you need to worry about is just having a healthy baby because parenting is a blessing so i want to say congrulations and take care of yourself and dont worry everything is going to be alright.
2007-04-06 11:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - probably most pregnancies in the world are unplanned and unexpected. Everything I'm sure will be fine. Make sure you go to the doctor and get on pre-natal vitamins
2007-04-04 06:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhmm.... why wouldnt it be safe and healthy? Lots of people have unplanned pregnancies! I did and now i have a beautiful 15 month old.
2007-04-04 06:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy to David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what things happen and they happen for a reason.. when you have the baby you will see it will change your life and you would appreciate your baby and your husband more because you have something to share with him that you and him made
2007-04-04 06:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Chyna Doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pregnant with my third child unexpectedly, we were happy with just two. But, after the initial "I cant believe I'm pregnant what the hell are we gonna do?" It gets exciting and fun. Don't let your fears worry you to the point where you cant enjoy it.
2007-04-04 06:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋