i knw its long bt bare wiv me plz!!
friday me and my friends decide we will go out on thursday bowling, everything is set. Monday night comes, and a "friend" lets call them bob, tells me over msn with extreme anger and throughout the convo being rude for absolutly no reason other then bob has bad PMS, that bob doesnt want to go bowling because she wont be in the mood and il have to drive, i say "you dont have to drive wel get the train but thats ok, me and the others will just go, no problem".. so i spend an hour finding out train times and prices to go 'bowling', i then get a txt saying 'i will come actually' so i go back on msn, tell her ive jst spent an hour looking for info, your messing me around just tell me whether you want to come or not', she says 'yeah il pick you up and wel go', so i tell the others who are coming of the plans. Tuesday comes and me and bob decide wel go to the cinema on wednesday, we sort all the plans out over msn. *more details to come let me write them
2007-04-04 05:36:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
12am tuesday night i get a text from bob saying 'il leave tomorrow i dont feel too good sorry x' gettin pissed off now, i still carry out the plans i had to go to the cinemas, i just got somebody else to come with me. Wednesday i go to the cinemas leaving my mobile at home, i get home find two texts from bob, first one 'actually il come to the cinemas today etc' 2nd txt a few hours later sent from bob 'i dont want to go on thursday either see you one day' ... so now shes not coming tomorrow fckin the plans up yet again..
do i have the right to be seriously ANGRY???
2007-04-04 05:37:14 · update #1
Im not going... im going... im not going... im going....
does that warrant me to confront her and dismiss her as a friend? seriously pissssssssssssssing me off
2007-04-04 05:37:57 · update #2
IF YOU DONT WANT TO READ THE QUESTION, THEN GO BACK TO THE MAIN QUESTION PAGE, NOBODY IS FORCING YOU TO READ OR FORCING YOU TO LEAVE REALLY POINTLESS ANSWERS SUCH AS 'I DONT WANT TO READ ALL THAT' ETC
2007-04-04 05:46:31 · update #3
Any question with that much text in it pisses me off. Good luck finding people who want to wade through all of that and then answer.
2007-04-04 05:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Whoa!!!! Let's sit down and have a cup of tea....
Now...I can see why u r pissed off, I would be too, let me tell u.
Now I wouldn't necessarily say for you to disqualify this "BOB" as your friend, but I do recommend u sit and talk to "BOB" and let her know that this is becoming a problem to you and it's messing up your plans at times. Basically, bring it to her attention that she is not the kind of person u r willing to rely on if something were to come up in the future that u would want for her to join you in. Tell her to get her $hit straight (well not really like that, but you know), or just try not to invite her to too many places for a while so she can get the point. Let her know that her YES is a YES and NO is a NO, get it? got it? GOOD!!!
2007-04-04 12:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by blah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No don't dismiss this person as a friend, something else is going on in their life, maybe immaturity, family problems, etc. I would try to have a heart to heart with this friend ask why she/he feels this way. Do not point out how much it makes you angry, let them speak first, you may find out things that you can actually help with. REMEMBER FRIENDS ARE GOLDEN!!!!
2007-04-04 12:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her she is gettin' you confused with her change of plans so often. if she wants to do something, she's got to stick to it. if she keeps doing this don't answer her phone calls and delete her from you msn. that is a lot of details so i believe you actually put a lot of thought on that and you really care about this "issue." but tell her you won't be her toy anymore so she can't just play around with you like you someone who don't have any feelings.
2007-04-04 12:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop focusing on trivial things like your bowling plans and look into why she is behaving this way. If this isn't usual for her, I think that you should try and talk to her. Maybe something happened. Maybe she's depressed. I think she needs a friend who's worried about more than just bowling.
2007-04-04 12:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by leaptad 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nah she is wishy washy just don't make plans to go with Bob anymore...but to end a friendship thats kindof harsh isn't it?
2007-04-04 12:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Sparkling♥Jules♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...sorry, I feel for you...Just calm down, everything will be fine. I wish I could give you a little bit more better advice, but I don't know what to say =/
2007-04-04 12:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
such a long story, but you need to get new friends, she's playing ya, and really think voice to voice contact is alot better
2007-04-04 12:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..friends need some latitude at times..
2007-04-04 12:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by metoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tooooooooo much unnecessary stuff in the first 5 lines. Didn't read the whole thing assuming this would be a trend.
2007-04-04 12:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i understand your anger,indecision is infuriating.perhaps in the future dont let her know you are going out.
2007-04-04 14:01:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋