i was engaged before(fixed mirrage). during 8 months, i had doubts about going on -also we didn't get along that well and from the begining i didn't accept his looks- evantually we broke our engagment and i felt a huge wieght was lifted off my chest. after six months, i got engaged to anathor man, 90% percent of his qualities i love so much. the problem is: i still wonder sometimes wether i was doing the right thing or not(i have this fear that what happened to me before will happen to me again) i went through alot of pain and i don't want to go through it again. tell me how to release this unconsiuse fear? idon't want to blow something good in my life from this useless fear. thanx
2007-04-04 05:32:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We all have fears of the unknown, but we have to make decisions and stick with them. If your looking back or doubting your decision then you need to think why your doing this. do you still have feeling for him? We all go through a lot of pain through our life time, something that is a normal part of life. We have to face our fear, the unknown is what is usually holding us back. You need to ask yourself how much you love this man your with right and do you see yourself with him 5 years from now, if that part of it makes you scared then don't do anything until your sure of yourself and decisions you make. Every action we take has a reaction to it. Hopefully, you can face whatever it is and learn that what life has to offer you.
2007-04-04 06:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop rushing into engagements and take your time to make sure you and the other person is ready, that way you know you are making a mistake or not.
2007-04-04 06:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your fiance about the past. explain your fears & concerns. he should understand what you feel & hopefully can put those fears to rest.
2007-04-04 05:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋