i have this friend who is so nice that it gets annoying sometimes!
and she kinda talks too much even when im talking to some1 else she'll just interrupt, and if i asked her to wait or ignore it she thinks i hate her which i dont!
she sets next to me in class and i cant change my place and i cant end my friendship with her and i dont want to its just that im going through lots of things these days and its easy to make me angry these days and i just cant take it anymore!
i just need time away from her till i calm down she's driving me crazy!
she talks and never listens so i what should i do?!
does saying all that makes me a bad friend?
or is it natural so ask for some me time?
2007-04-04 02:14:42 · 15 answers · asked by MAK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend needs to raise her level of self esteem so she will stop placing so much importance on what others think, this is why she talks too much and interrupts. you are not a bad friend but you need some time away from her. Also you need to tell her in a gentle way that she needs to give you space.
2007-04-04 02:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Maria b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely ask for some "me time." You might say, "I love hanging out with you, but I've got a lot going on at the moment, and a lot to think about. Could you call me next week and we'll hang out? Until then, I'd kinda like some time for myself."
I know how aggravating it can be to have friends that do this. If she takes it personally, do NOT feel guilty. Either she'll get over it, or she won't - either way, you'll know what kind of friend she is. But trust me - address it now or the problem will never go away. I've been too worried about hurting people's feelings in the past, and I should have just spoken up. Good Luck!!!
2007-04-04 09:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Would Not Be Her Friend. I Have A Friend Like That And Everyday When I Go To School He Says Your Fat, Or says Shutup.Then One Day He Got In A Fight With Me And I Never Talk To Him Now.
2007-04-04 09:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by jeillllo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yo should be fair and square with your friend, and tell her exactly what you have told us.
You have a lot to deal with these days, and you would like to deal with this on your own. Therefore, you need some time for your self. After this, you can see how you feel of getting back "together" again.
Believe me, when you have problems in a friendship, and you don't deal with it from the beginning, the problems will just grow, and one day you will probably explode. Which is absolutely no good.
Better to stay in some kind of friendship, than to be enemies.
2007-04-04 09:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Festblues 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friend that you are going threw some things in your life right now, tell her you need space, that you are still her friend but you need to work out some things alone. Maybe write her a letter, sometimes it is easier to write down things you want to tell someone, it just seems to come out much better without being mean. Good luck
2007-04-04 09:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is just set her down and discuss what you feel with her. Tell her that you dont wont to loose her friendship, but she is driving you CRAZY!!!!! Just explain it all to her and tell her that you are sorry if you've offended her, but you just need a break! And no, it dosent make you a bad friend
2007-04-04 09:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a relationships people need time to be alone, it is human nature. So best bet would be to let her know how you feel, it might just bring you closer together as friends. I am sure that even she needs some alone time once in a while.
2007-04-04 09:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by tai8 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to explain to her what she is doing... if she is as nice as you say she is, she will understand and she needs to understand that what she is doing is wrong and that u are going through tuff things right now and ur not trying to be rude, but you are just being a friend and letting her know.
2007-04-04 13:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mom2B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i kinda understand how you feel. to tell you the truth i ammore like your friend. people say i talk too much and all. but anyways what i would do is be honest with her on how you feel. if you dont one day your going to explode and might something you dont mean. but if you tell her now at least she knows your are still her friend because you were honest with your feelings. but if you dont tell her your probably going to lose her as your friend beacuse you did not do your job as a friend is be honest. she probably dont have many friends to talk to did you think of that. but if you do tell her i bet you yall would be friends when your older.
2007-04-04 09:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by grumpyjen28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel though in different situation weeks before with my best friend. I would suggest that you spent time talking to her lightly but firmly on this issue, in a relax environment such as a drink after school. but remember to keep yourself cool, as in moment of fury u may destroy the friendship. keeping in your heart won't help and will only increase the resentment. all in all, remember that she is a friend worth keeping. cheers.
2007-04-04 09:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋