I had a friend that I had know for 36 years and I lost tract of him for 18 years. I finally found him and associated with for a years and a half. During this year and a half there were several times that I could not get hold of him for periods of 6 to 10 weeks at a time. My emails went unanswered or wer returned unanswered. By this I mean that they were sent on one email address and returned unanswered on another address, whichh means that they were opened, looked at and then sent back. I finally confronted this person about this and he got mad and said I was calling him a liar. The part I left out was that his wife of 28 years, had never liked me from the first time she met me. My question is, does anyone think that it could have been his wife going into the emails and either deleating them and / or sending them back without his knowledge? Also, the only way that I could get a responce from him was to send him messages through his ebay account. I did this a # of times and got answers.
2007-04-04 00:24:03 · 13 answers · asked by golden rider 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why don't you ask him yourself or tell him you have been sending him messages in his email and that it seemed unusual that he answers you in ebay but not in his own email account . also if he doesn't want to associate with you anymore because of his wife then I guess you don't really have any choice
2007-04-04 00:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a possibility that its his wife and he can either know, not know, even care! for the sake of love. Love will do that to you, it sometimes takes you to a place where certain things, people, places you once loved don't matter anymore; all for the sake of love and having it. I had a friend who was a very good friend of mine who helped me out with my ex b/c they were friends and for quite sometime after my ex and I broke up, I kept talking to his friend b/c I was already friends with him and I had HIGH HOPES of getting back together w/ my ex; but in the end, sad to say; my friend let his love for his newly girlfriend or friend w/ benefits get in the way. They had had arguments over me already b/c she was insecure thinking that he had more of a personal relationship when in reality, we were only friends! Long story short, it all ended when I called his cell during Thanksgiving and he called me back saying that we couldn't talk anymore that his girlfriend didn't want us talking anymore. That was that! I had already went through so much heart break and pain from my ex where I removed the friend's number, I never really met him anyways; we only talked on the phone so that wasn't a problem. I then removed all my exes #s that could lead me to him if I really wanted to get myself across but I got the strong feeling from God telling me to forget both of them! I'm sorry I went through so much of that, but what I'm trying to say is that love can change everything sometimes to an extent you never knew was possible whether it be good or bad! If its bad, it works out for the better anyways, right?It's all about Fate.
2007-04-04 07:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by maneene_goddess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's probably the wife going through his email and deleting or returning them. She must be jealous of the friendship you have with her husband. I'd get in touch with your friend and tell him your sorry for making him mad and explain what you think.
2007-04-04 08:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he has a wife she probably got jealous if you are a girl and talking to her husband i think that it was a witchy thing for her to do that you and your friend have been friends since whenever i think that it was her deleting the emails because if you and your friend when you guys were talking you guys would get along right? So his wife is probably just being a you know what because her husband is talking to you
2007-04-04 07:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Amber B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely you nailed the reason already. Tell him that you think that his wife may be keeping him from seeing your emails. Ask him if he would prefer that you email him at a different email address.
2007-04-04 07:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like the wife is responsible yes. Sometimes it can happen the little green eyed monster seems to have resurfaced, if she never liked you dont worry about it, explain it to your friend in a good manner but try not to use harsh words.
2007-04-04 07:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Fadwa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How very sad. If it does turn out to be the wife, please don't abandon him. Sounds like he could really use a friend. She obviously does not like him very much or she would want him to be happy.
2007-04-04 07:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by michelledenay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares..leave the man and his wife alone...After the 2nd unanswered e-mail you should have KNOWN he was not interested in restarting a friendship with you...because of you or his wife..it doesn't matter.......move on...don't go backwards in life...things and people change............
2007-04-04 07:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think it must be his wife checkin his emails because if it was ur friend he would also ignore ur messages on ebay
2007-04-04 07:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by PERSIAN PRINCESS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
his wife could be going into his e-mail and deleting them
2007-04-04 07:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Pea 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋