ive been out with girls and ive got a girlfrind now and i love her ..but am i a lesbian? ive never really had interst with lads.. i never really thought a lad was fit, ive had boyfrinds and done stuff with them but thinking about it i dont think i enjoyed... but with a girl a do, but im confused weather i am just bi or gay,
please help?!?
2007-04-03 23:27:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Only you can know, love. No-one can tell you if you are or not.
If you love your girlfriend, and you are physically attracted to her, then at the very least you're gay. And as you have no interest in boys, it does sounds like you might not be bisexual.
There's no rush - take your time and don't get wound up about it. Plenty of time. Good luck!
2007-04-04 01:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Wild About Harry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By reading this I'd say you are a lesbian...
But what does it matter if you are bi or gay? You are who you are! And you are clearly happy with the girlfriend that you love...
So think about it no longer and live life to the fullest!
2007-04-04 06:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.....take that out from your mind. Just because you are comfortable with girls does not mean you are a lesbian. sometimes girls are much better to be close than with boys. There will be better understandings. so without feeling in a negative way do what pleases you. god has given free will.
2007-04-04 06:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kumari V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like me as a teenager... I'd say you're a lesbian. Lesbians don't hate men - they just prefer women.
But why label yourself?? Does it really matter? Go with what feels good - as long as you're not hurting anybody.
2007-04-04 07:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you feel comfortable with gals? did you like the men or gals cuz if you like both yall r bi if you have more love 4 gals in mi opinion you r a lezbian
2007-04-04 06:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky Lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no need to place a label on yourself, just go with whatever you feel and don't worry about it.
2007-04-04 06:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by LegendMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r confused abt this u might be ...as u even dont no the answer if u r or not
2007-04-04 07:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you a human that love
2007-04-04 06:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can do on both, then you're a bisexual.
2007-04-04 06:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by del 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who the f*** knows
2007-04-04 06:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by revolution 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋