God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. I mean he didn't make people gay. So why do people choose to be gay? Also I don't believe the excuse people are born gay as I have stated above. It's against God's law.
Now that I have said that I have not discriminated against gays because I don't personally know any gay people and I would if I did because God also says to love everyone weather they are part of God's family or not.
I am just trying to understand why people do it because it make any sense to me because of the way God made our bodies. Men and Women fit together like a puzzle.
2007-04-03 21:13:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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My good life makes me happy
2007-04-03 21:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are people straight?
God made Adam and Adam not Adam and Eve. I mean he didn't make people straight. So why do people choose to be straight? Also I don't believe the excuse people are born hetero as I have stated above. It's against God's law.
Now that I have said that I have not discriminated against heteros because I don't personally know any straight people and I would if I did because God also says to love everyone weather they are part of God's family or not.
I am just trying to understand why people do it because it make any sense to me because of the way God made our bodies. Men and Men fit together like a puzzle.
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2007-04-04 04:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Well, it seems like you have all the answers, so I don't know what else to tell you.
If I have to work within the parameters that you've set above (that people aren't born gay), then this is my answer: people are gay because they absolutely, completely, are driven wild and crazy by the same sex.
When they look at the same sex, they feel deeply in their hearts and minds and bodies, that men and men, and women and women, fit together like a puzzle. They feel romantic love for the same sex.
They never chose that- ask a million people who, if they could, would absolutely choose to be straight. And if it ain't God and it ain't genes and it ain't choice, then what exactly is it? Basically, there ain't no answer- there's no standard criteria for GLBT people- we come from every part of the world, every race, every economic background.
So . . . take from that what you will.
P.S.- as for the whole "the way God made our bodies" . . . think of this- God put a prostate inside the rectum, which responds fantastically to stimulation that can conveniently be provided by a penis. How do we explain that?
2007-04-04 04:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
Your statement about Adam and Eve and against God's law is assuming that there is a God, but where is your proof?
I don't believe there is a God and your bigitous Protestant statements are thus irrelevant. But that is not the point of this topic.
People are not born gay or straight. People are born bi. They are shaped one way or another by their environment. They think there might be a gay gene but then I know someone who is gay and his father is very masculine, his mother is normal and his younger brother is very straight. Thus I would say it is mostly environment with a small physiological factor.
Being gay, I would say it is certainly not a choice. No one would choose the discrimination we face everyday. No one would choose being rejected by your own friends and parents when they find out. But on the other hand, the overly flamboyant gay people who shove how gay they are down everyone's throats are the ones to be thanked for the negative opinion of gay people.
Ultimately the choice every gay person faces: 1) sleep with the opposite sex and not be satisfied/happy or 2) be gay but be rejected by society.
I think the eradication of religion would greatly help homosexuals be better accepted, but that is not practical.
2007-04-04 04:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Michael B 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
So, you are stating that because the first two were not gay, then god would not allow any after them to have a mental attraction to the same sex? That makes no sense, homosexuality, and bisexuality too, are not a choice, what physically turns you on is not something you can pick and choose, and neither is who you fall in love with. Any more than a straight woman can stop herself falling in love with the man she knows will cheat, can a homosexual stop themselves falling in love with someone of the same sex. I do not personally believe it has anything to do with God, I think that homosexuality is an evolved trait that appeared to help us deal with the overpopulation problem.
2007-04-04 07:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by romanticide91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me a break, sherlock. We are all made in God's image if that's what you want to believe. Who's to say your God isn't gay??
In addition, according to your Bible, Adam and Eve were the first two inhabitants of Eden. Therefore, how did the world arrive at a population of six BILLION people of different colors, cultures, religions, etc if there wasn't some sort of incest involving your Adam and Eve and their children, grandchildren, etc.
2007-04-04 11:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gay man does not look at a woman and think "I should be with her because my penis fits so well into her vagina." To think so is incredibly naive (which is what I prefer to the word "ignorant").
A gay man does not look at a man and think "I shouldn't be with him because the first two people were male and female."
The bottom line is, there are far, far more than two people in the world today, and it is natural and to be expected that variations in the standard formula are bound to occur, whether that sits well with the majority or not.
2007-04-04 04:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know for sure but i think that it might be because they are attracted in some sort of a way and feel more happy near each other, than with opposed sex. That is what i think...
2007-04-04 06:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....sorry to burst your little bubble!!!!
God made me the way i am and he loves me for what i am!!!!you are quick to judge but if you are not gay how would you know???
i know i was born this way because I've known i was gay since i was 4-5years old!!!Gay people don't choose to be gay!!!what normal person would choose something like that anyway???its not always easy to be gay...with homophobes and bigots and just general hatred toward gay people..why would someone choose that??
and like you said its no excuse.....its a fact!!!people are BORN THAT WAY!!!!
2007-04-04 04:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by (,'')Sweet guy 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Are you honestly trying to understand or have you already made up your mind?
2007-04-04 04:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by the Boss 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋