I had a fling with a guy 3 years ago, he quit talking to me after the fact and I labeled him a "player". A few months later we hung out (shortly after I started dating my bf), and since then we have talked every 6 months. We have talked briefly every week since december, and he'll mention sex sometimes.. along with the lines of "we should date.. you're better off w/me.. your bf doesn't take care of you" etc. He was also soothing to me when my dad died.
What does this guy want?
2007-04-03 20:19:42 · 3 answers · asked by pumpkinkints 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He "admits" that he was inexperienced dating (and sexually) wise.
2007-04-03 20:27:12 · update #1
A piece of your vaj obviously
2007-04-03 20:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by mybuddyisagun 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the thrill of the chase he's into. Once he has you, he's bored. But if he knows he can't have you, it's a challenge for him to get you away from your man. It's called the poontang game. He will chase you and drop sexual comments until he gets you in the sack, but when he has you he gets bored. He's a player of the game and should be avoided. But, then again, all men play the poontang game so beware!!
2007-04-04 03:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by a_kings_fanatic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to hook up with you in more ways than just friends or he wouldn't be bringing up sex or how he doesn't think your b/f treats you right. If you want to continue being friends with him, you need to be upfront about the fact that you are happy in your relationship and don't really want to talk to him about that part of your life. Keep the conversation friendly and if he starts talking like that tell him that you aren't going there with him. Be sure he knows that you just want to be strictly friends.
2007-04-04 06:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋