Me and my boyfriend have been broken up for about 3 days, and i just found out yesterday from a friend of mine that my "best friend" told her that he would come over to her house after he left mine and they would do stuff, like kissing and other disturbing stuff. She told me that my friend said that it's been happening for about a month while we were going out. she wasn't suppose to tell me this and she told me not to tell her, and to act like i don't know wut happened, but i can't it'll be way too hard to try and be her friend when she done that to me. wut do you think? oh, and by the way she has boyfriend she cheated on, with my ex, should i tell him?
2007-04-03 17:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by shelbee c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best thing to do is just let them play it out but I no that is easier said then done so you do what will make you feel better about what the two of them are doing.If it were me I would ask her what the h ell she thinks she is doing by going behind your back and letting your boyfriend in her house after knowing he just left you. And we will never be friends again and I am going to tell your boyfriend what you have been doing behind his back.And tell her she can have your boyfriend he is a bad kisser anyway.
2007-04-03 18:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the whole thing is immature kiddie porn--if you really want to grow up---just forget all of these people and everything that supposedly happened.. Get a grip on what real teens are doing--not jumping on each other like dogs in heat. Find a better class of people and find some nice stuff to do. Don't talk to anyone about any of this--there is no point to carrying it on and making yourself miserable. Just forget it and move on.
2007-04-03 17:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually i take no action about things, until I have "Personally Seen them". Please understand that people will say things that are disturbing, "constantly" Many times the Whole World has gone to war, due to things People Just say. Do me a favor. Don't believe what people say, until you have "SEEN IT". In a Court of Law that would must likely be dismissed as "Hear Say". If you really want to enjoy life, go around listening to people talk about others, with out even having a CLUE.. They just want to talk. Unfortunately this hurts many. Hope this helps. Will.
One more thing.. Please understand, than when people have something to say about some one, They will twist it.!! And If they have nothing to say,!!! They will make it up!.. Sit back and watch. You will see this. Live your own life not what someone tells you. Will.
2007-04-03 17:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Will M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave them alone. As both of you have already broken off the relationship, you don't have to bother about what happens next. You have your own life to lead and so does he. Let him experience the heartache that you had gone through for a change. Just leave them alone.
2007-04-03 17:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away.
Don't create unnecessary big drama unless you are thinking of revenge. (devilish laughter)
But if not, leave her. She doesn't deserve you. What kind of friends will do that behind your back some more.
It's time for you to have fun and discover more in life.
2007-04-03 17:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by www.DonnaDaritan.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Tell the boy, not the girl. She deserves a revenge. They are both cheaters!
2007-04-03 17:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by AL75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can try to your ex to see if its really happening but he probably wont tell you so ask you friend and tell her you need the honest truth and that you wont be mad at her if she is than tell her boyfriend or try to get him to figure it out
2007-04-03 17:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by bianca o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about telling her boyfriend but I would tell her what scum she is. Don't tell her how you found out, you could've seen them yourself not necessarily someone told you about it. You better not be her friend.
2007-04-03 17:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't talk to her ***...or his either...and when she tells you if something is wrong...let her know you know her dirty little secret...and don't tell her its ur friend tell her it was some other chick and make up a name good luck and fu@* both of them
2007-04-03 17:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by *05* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Forget your BF as well as your best friend.
2007-04-03 17:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by dondatu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋