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i've known this guy for over a year now and i have liked him for a really long time. he left his wallet in my car one day and i discovered that he had bought a brigde ring for 250. didn't know what kind it was so i called and asked and was informed that it was a engament ring. this whole time he told me that he could tell me anything and that he trusted me. in that cause way didn't he tell me instead of leading me the wrong way. i asked him about it. tired telling me that he didn't know anything about it and that he got it for his mom for her bday. he wasn't getting married. what do you think is going on is he telling me the truth or is he really going to get married to this girl hed only been dating for 6 months. i told him no matter what he choose's i'll stick with him

Answer 1

I am a little confused as to the nature of your relationship? Have you been romantically involved with this guy, and has he led you to believe you and he were a couple, and more than friends? If you have been intimate, then why is he dating some other girl for 6 months? Did you know he was dating someone other than you? If you were aware of this other girl, then I would say that you really have no legit claims on this guy. You have left yourself open for being used, and if he was being intimate with both of you at the same time, then I would say, he is not worthy as a friend or boyfriend to either of you two women. The ring for mom is a stretch, unless you can find out if his mom actually received the ring as a Birthday gift. I personally think this guy is un-trustworthy, using both of you, and would not want to have a friend like him. How can you value a cheater, and put any stock in what he says or does? I would not stand by this guy, after what you said, you will continue to be used, and do not seem to be his top priority. Lose him, find a true friend, or, bf, that puts you, and only you as #1.

Answer 2

Why should he tell you,he knows by telling you, you will stop the booty and there is nothing better then getting booty from two different women.All he has to do is tell you what you want to hear and the same goes for the other girl.He knows you are a push over and he is using you,but you can't see that or should I say you refuse to see it.You must feel something is up with him,why else would you go through his wallet and call a store to find out what kind of ring he bought.You need to find a friend that you can trust and it sure isn't him,you have no future with this man only heart brake back off now while you still have a little dignity left he really is making a fool of you.Don't let him do that to you.

Answer 3

Saying he CAN tell you anything and having to Do so are two very different things. He can but he does not have to, the choice is his. Thats what friendship is all about ...being there when your friend needs you but letting him/her have the space to make decisions and choices. I dont think if he didnt tell you, that he is not your friend anymore. Friends also dont have to share everything. When he is ready to tell you...he will.

Answer 4

Don't stick with him if he's lying to you.Especially if he is getting married to another woman.Let his behind go don't be a door mat.I know its hard but you will get over hi,IF he is with another.If he truly love you he will come back running .The grass is not always greener on the otherside.Find thing that make you happy.You can always talk to GOD

Answer 5

Maybe its a surprise for you and he didn't want you to know. If it is for some other girl, get rid of him not unless you can except the relationship between them and have him as a friend on the side.

Answer 6

He didn't you because he value's your friendship and he knows how you would feel about it. i don't think you will approve of anybody he's with because you want him for yourself. It's his business and his life and if you were a true friend you would be happy for him or at least supportive.

Answer 7

dont ask me...