My boyfriend hit me... help?

Question

Ok well today my boyfriend and I got in a fight and he hit me.... he has done it one or twice but this time it really hurt.. I am scared of him. What do I do I mean hes not like that all the time... just when he gets really mad at me. I love him but he never said he was sorry for hitting me and I don't know what to do... I think I kave a bruise on my arm

Answer 1

Get away from him. It will only get worse. With promises that it won't happen again and he'll be really truly sorry and remorseful but that won't mean much when your getting stitches in your forehead from "falling on that damn doorknob". I've known a few women who had boyfriends that did exactly what you said. He's not like this most of the time, only when I make him mad. There isn't a relationship on the planet that the couple involved aren't mad at each other from time to time. Socking up the one you love is not an answer that is good for either of you. It will not stop until 1. he's in jail for hurting you (and I hope it's only hurting). or 2. He gets some kind of anger management help. If 1. happens the courts will impose 2. anyway. But if he were to do the later on his own it would have more meaning. Anger management classes or any classes for that matter are much more effective when attended voluntary as opposed to imposed by the courts. I wish you all the best and above all else be true to yourself.

Answer 2

I can't stand to hear about these things. I'm fed up with how many jerks there are that think they can have a healthy relationship with a girl. I'm a very genuine guy and I don't understand how any guy can EVER hit a girl. I agree with everyone else to dump him or get help from the police.

It really saddens me to see that there are not a lot of good guys left. I'm one of the remaining few and if I ever get a relationship with a girl, I will respect her and if we ever argue, I will be a REAL man and not hit her.

I'm so sorry you had to go through this, but if I were you, he's gotta go.

Answer 3

You have two options.

The first one you can choose to do is press charges against him, girl. Simply put a restraining order, which will keep him away for a long while. And you still have that choice whether you'll wait or not. Up to you.

The second option you have is to get him anger management help. You obviously stated that when he gets angry he hits you. He needs some good help here, you know. This can teach him to control his anger; and not use physical violence to demonstrate his emotions. Yet, it's odd that he didn't apologize after wards. If you're one who likes to work things out, talk to him about his problem. Maybe you can help him, girl. But i recommend for him to get professional help.

So I gave you two options, girl. I wish you my very best. Peace!

Answer 4

First of all he shouldn't have hit you and you should've gone to the cops and dumped him. Even if he begs and cries for your forgiveness HE WILL DO IT AGAIN, especially since you stayed with him after the first time. They say we teach people how to treat us and there will only be a perpetrator as long as there is someone who allows themselves to be perpetrated. Do not ever accept anyone laying a hand on you. Since the first time you allowed it he lost even more respect for you. Don't be afraid, you have to go to the police and teach him it's not ok.

Answer 5

call the cops, press charges, whatever happens...don't drop the charges for any reason...even if he says he loves you.....he's just saying it so you'll drop the charges. If someone actually loves you or even cares about you they wouldn't hit you. burn that into your brain. NO ONE THAT CARES ABOUT YOU WOULD HIT YOU!
and then stay away from him for the rest of your life....because if you don't he will hit you again and you will have more than just a bruise on your arm if you stick around.

Answer 6

The first one you can choose to do is press charges against him, girl. Simply put a restraining order, which will keep him away for a long while. And you still have that choice whether you'll wait or not. Up to you.

Answer 7

OK, you have 30 some responses that are telling you to LEAVE THIS GUY!!! In my heart you are saying to yourself, well, these people don't really know my boyfriend, they don't know that he really does love me and he didn't mean to hurt me. WRONG!!! WE ALL KNOW THAT HE LOVES YOU AND HE IS STILL HURTING YOU!!!! It is not your fault! No matter what you do, no matter how stupid you think it was, no matter how he makes you feel about whatever you did or didn't do, IT DOESN'T GIVE HIM ANY RIGHT TO HIT YOU!!!
Move out, break up and mean it! Please listen to all these answers and do something about it! I hope this helps you!♥♥

Answer 8

There is never any excuse for a man to hit a woman. Never!!!!!
Lose this loser immediately. Leave town for a while if you need to. But ditch this dummy now. Immediately. A woman should be treated with respect. Always.
I Cr 13;8a

Answer 9

Don't ask him to say he's sorry he'll only say it because you asked him to not because hes sorry.
theirs no reason for him to be hitting you at all.
and each time he hits you it will hurt more and more because each time he's going to hit you harder
Now that he thinks he can get away with hitting you ,surprise the hell out of him and leave his sorry@ss.

Answer 10

LINSEY, I AM SORRY FOR U, NO MAN SHOULD EVER DISRESPECT A WOMEN, AND CERTAINLY NEVER PHYSICALY ABUSE,, BABY GIRL I SEE A PAERN'' U ALREADY KNOW WHA U NEED TO DO, FIND SUPPORT
WETHER ITS FAMILY FRIENDS, OR AN AGENCY, THIS WILL JUST CONTINUE, MAYBE NOT OFTEN BUT IN THE LONG TERM DEVISTATING, THERE IS SOME ONE OUT THERE WHO WILL RESPECT U AS A PERSON, J