my friend sebastian and i are really good friends but i sorta like him for more than a friend but my friends keep sayin that likes me too how can i tell i asked him if he did but he said that he only likes me as a friend i even asjed one of his like best friends nick and jo and they both said no also i mean i am getting confussed i don't know if he does or if he dosn't how can i tell if he dosn't even flirt in skool please help me
2007-04-03 15:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You asked him and he told you he wants to keep it as just friends. Don't you think he would know better than your friends how he feels? It sounds like you're trying to make the relationship into something that it isn't. If you keep doing that you will end up getting hurt and possibly losing Sebastian as a friend. Back off, accept that he only wants to be your friend and be a friend to him. Stop listening to what other people are saying. You did the right thing by asking him and you got your answer. Now trust that he gave you an honest answer and let the relationship be what it is.
2007-04-03 15:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey since your still in school. My guess would be that he's still to young to want to have a girlfriend. At least your friends. Maybe he will come around, at least I hope for your sake. Guys are like that, but he did say he likes you too. Maybe he doesn't even know if he likes you in that way. He's to busy being a boy and having fun. I wouldn't sweat it, you have plenty of time for this kind of stuff. Being a friend could blossom into something great later. All the best!
2007-04-03 22:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to know just ask him because you know some people like to play with you .. so just ask him how about if you all be with other more than friends as boyfriend and girlfriend and if you get the luck that he really likes you and be with each other it will be nice but you really have to know the intentions that he have and the kind of relatonship that you all form !
2007-04-03 22:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Hindu_ Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now accept the friendship. Give yourselves time to see if you like each other enough to move further. Don't ask him about his feelings. When the time is right, he will let you know. Also, guys may feel threatened if they know you are talking to their friends about something that is personal. Good luck.
2007-04-03 22:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM...
If a woman I really liked asked me if I liked her I would say yes. Why shoot myself in the foot? Could your friends be wrong?
2007-04-03 22:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by md.pierce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to find the best moment n let you heart speak
it be a very good for you,and if that does not work in your future life you say that you have at least try..........
2007-04-03 22:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by gost_key 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow and believe in your self and ask him out or email me at holy_one93@yahoo.com and I will ask him for you stop procrastinating gurl go ahead and handle yours
2007-04-03 22:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Nae nae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called unrequited love.
its a sad, long, weary and torturous path.
2007-04-03 22:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by dr phil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't like you.
2007-04-03 22:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by la de da 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋