Its sort of like a curse and blessing. My roommie for my second yr is gay. I been debating on wheter are not to come out to him, since he already is, thing is were are complete opposites.I wouldn't be trying to hit on him or anything. But I don't should I?
2007-04-03 14:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by ArchAngel Raziel 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Actually he never told me. I sort of knew, and the other roommates told me.
2007-04-03 14:46:32 · update #1
I would be honest about your sexuality. If you aren't interested in dating him, be honest about that, too. If he is already "out" he already knows how difficult it can be, and will probably be cool about it.
Who knows? Maybe he has some cute friends he can introduce you to or knows of a cool gay club you have never been to. He may be a valuable resource!
Good luck with whatever you decide.
2007-04-03 14:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by elysium 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum that is a very touchy situation for you to open up to on him. I mean you no him probaly better then most persons. If you dont think he will go off on you then I might say you dont have nothing to lose. But if you think that he really is hiding it and dont want you to no, he could get very upset and lose your friend ship, I might think about it a bit before you do. Good luck with your choice
2007-04-03 15:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by babycakes3557 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't make a big deal out of it, like's doing. If you out yourself in a conversation, then it happens. If you two never get close enough to talk about relationships, then so be it too.
2007-04-03 16:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to know. Just make it casual. Not every two gay people hook up, or even like each other!
2007-04-03 14:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH TELL HIM!
Whats the worst that could happen?
If anything your relationship as friends will grow closer!
=D
2007-04-03 15:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by D.Allman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a fear of being outed to other people, you should tell him since he was open and honest by telling you.
2007-04-03 14:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like yeah im gay, but i dont wanna get with you
or that you already have been mackin this other random.
2007-04-03 14:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by --topnotch; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think what work for you but be careful
2007-04-03 14:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋