should i or shouldn't i?

Question

I have split up from my boyfriend of 3 months.

during the relationship, he introduced me to his sister. She was quite nice to me and invited me to come visit her...which i had been unable to do due to other commitments.

just before we split, she invited me again for a visit and i promised her that i would...here's my question.

Should i or shouldn't her visit my ex's sister?

I don't want him to think that i'm trying to get back with him through her cos i ain't.

Nor do i have any intention of analysing the breakup with her.

I am simply going there with clear intentions and no expectations

Should i or would it just be too weird.

What impression will it give him

serious answers please

Answer 1

I'm not worried about him, so much as how you feel going over there. Now you want serious answers then be serious with yourself... how do you feel around him? Because thats going to influence your interaction with his sister and when you run into this guy. If you love'd him extremely and he cheated or lied about something, then its going to be harder then how you put it. Now if your really over this fella then go do exactly what you've said and wait for him to react... depending on how he reacts be ready to justify what your doing the exact way you said.... its just that if there was love there its going to be hard on him to see you... so you are in a way slapping him in the face... but if it wasn't no real thing from him, don't worry about it, he has aready made a habit out of hiding his feelings, lets see if he can keep it up.... but the only thing wrong about it is that yours and his relationship has gotten to this point... shows one of you f'd up baddly which makes seeing the other... hard... so be careful, but you should... espacially if his sister is great person to be around, be nice to salvage a decent friendship out of this, even if it isn't him....