My soon-to-be ex is already frolicking about with the new man in her life, and i'm kinda feeling sorry for myself and wishing we could get back together, although i know getting back could be suicidal for me. I'm advised its not wise to remarry soon because of the children, but i need a "mother" to help me bring up the girls, and someone to love to help me maintain my sanity and keep me from "wandering". Any views on if i should remarry, and how soon, bearing in mind my young girls.
2007-04-03 09:58:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Allow the healing to begin and enjoy your girls. Simply do your best not just for yourself yet for your girls sake. I am also healing from my soon to be ex. I am healing and still doin my best for my girls and I. Most importantly though, my girls know I am also doing my best for the Lord Jesus Christ~
Pray with your girls and pray for them. my girls are 12 and 16.
Hope this helps~
Yours truly,
sissa~
2007-04-03 21:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by happysissa2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again, you don't need a Mother to bring up your girls. At least not right now. You have not healed from your breakup and the girls are sad because of it. Why take on this job if you even thought for a minute you couldn't do it on your own. I admire you for wanting to raise them the right way, but your decisions will affect your children. I'm still trying to figure out what the wandering part means. Lol Remember their needs comes before yours at least right now. Give everyone time to heal and then find someone who you love and not just a Mother figure.
2007-04-03 10:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, decelerate slightly. Your no longer divorced yet and already your questioning approximately bringing yet another woman into your ladies life. at the beginning stable luck finding somebody and not because of the fact of your ladies. You never as quickly as reported somebody to love you and you like them. because of the fact that specially your easily finding for a stay in maid through marriage does not it incredibly is extra decrease priced to hire somebody for that activity? Any woman those days will never go right into a relationship just to shelter you and your toddlers, now you are able to desire to lie and say the flaws she could desire to hearken to, yet what are you coaching your toddlers? Take it slowly through females, bringing yet somebody else into this equation could desire to basically reason extra issues down the line. If the females get linked to her and no love from you, do you think of it incredibly is going to truthfully artwork, no, you are able to basically pretend see you later which you like somebody. do no longer harm the females anymore than they already are through dashing into some thing you will remorseful approximately.
2016-12-08 17:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful, take your time and choose well...you are not only choosing a partner for yourself but also someone who will have a major influence on the lives of your girls....be careful and don't take that responsibility lightly.you all need a significant amount of time to adjust...give it a year at least...good luck
2007-04-03 10:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋