How to tell your parents that you are pregnant when you are a teenager??Help?

Answer 1

Sweetheart, telling them is what you have to do.
Parent's that LOVE unconditionally will be understandably upset, for a moment, then they go right into solution mode.
Don't allow your fear to be the reason you deny them doing their job.
Because you are a teenager, all the worst senariios come to your mind. Your carrying a LIFE within you and GOD put it there for safe keeping until it is ready to join the world out here with us. You take good care of it. We don't get humans here any other way.
Your parent's will be there for you...
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Answer 2

Who's your favorite? Mom or Dad. If you are worried that they will get mad, go to the store and buy a grandparents card with a bear or something. write in the card "Just thinking of you! love, your new grandchild" Your parents will not want to humiliate you after you went through all that trouble just to find a way to tell them you're pregnant.

Well i was 19 and not ready at all when i got pregnant with my first child. Me and my boyfriend were living in other peoples houses partying all the time. I told my dad first. he was very worried but when he seen i was able to handle the situation on my own and I was able to care for a child he became happy for me. I had a lot of growing up to do. My mom was extremely happy! Just so you know the first thing your parents are going to look at is how are you going to provide for this child. It is not easy!!!!!! especially when you are young.
You are going to need to grow up fast. Get a job. If you dont have one already. You are going to have to start buying diaper and formula now instead of that awesome pair or jeans you saw in the mall last week. Dont make your parents raise your child, they did there job raising you!

Answer 3

I'm a mom of a teenager and a 9th grade teacher. Please tell her or tell a close adult friend and have them go with you to talk to her. I found out stuff my daughter was doing and really wish I would have found out by her and not through the grape vine.
Will she be mad? Maybe but she will get over it and love you and help you. If she won't then you need to be with some other family member that is willing to help you. You also need to go to the doctor to make sure everything is OK with you and the baby.

Answer 4

I know that u made that one mistake that most girls make but u have to move on and start to take responsibility. All you can do is approach your parents when they are cool and calm and confess your wrong doing because if you don't they are going to hate u more that u didn't tell them right away. I know u are scared but I was in a similar situation were had been molested and raped by different family members since I was five up ot the age of 10 but finally I told myself that if I didn't tell, is was going to mean nothing after so many years. It will be okay if you need to send me an email send it to : [e-mail]. Keep informed becaus I want to mke sure u are okay. You are in my heart!

Answer 5

you need to just tell them. Mom Dad I need to talk to you both and just say it. The sooner the better. Let them yell and scream or do what ever their gonna do they have to learn to deal with this too. Besides their gonna find out sooner or later so why not just get it over with ASAP that way you and them will have the rest of the pregnancy to get over the upset and start enjoying the idea of a new life entering the family. Next time I would be more careful and keep the legs closed tight. Good Luck and best wishes.

Answer 6

I know it's hard to find the words. These are words you never thought you would have to say or your parents would ever have to hear. The only words to use are the truth. You know the best time to talk to them. You've known them your whole life. Say the truth, give them a minute and I hope you end up with a big hug. Good Luck.

Answer 7

Just be honest with them and tell them straight up. I 19,but still a teenager and i am pregnant, although i don't live at home i told my mom and she took it really well. If your scared to tell them like i was, i bought a bid that said " I LOVE MY GRANDMA" and she love it! it was easier for me 2 give her the bid then tell her face to face. Good Luck!
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Answer 8

Write it all down, what you wanna say, if you have made a decision already as to whether or not you are keeping the baby be prepared to tell them the decision you have made and give them reasons why. Think of it as a business proposal, lay out the facts and present them clearly and maturely. Then be prepared for tears, yelling and other emotions. you are their baby and they wanted more for you then to be saddled with a baby or the emotional damage of an abortion, try to remember that they love you. they are just sad that you aren't going to live up to your full potential.

Answer 9

Tell your parents that you are scared and you need a helping hand. Then you tell them what happened and who the father is. Good luck. that must be very stressful and scary but I am sure you will be okay.

Answer 10

I just went through this with my daughter and I hope this will help. As a mother she will be hurt, angry all the above but she still loves. Be open honest and prepare yourself for crying, but this will pass and she will be very grateful you didn't hide it and were honest. If she is a very difficult person bring someone you trust with you to help(Aunt,sister etc.) But everything will be ok honey, honest