Complex Friendship?

Question

I have a very dear friend with whom I used to talk a lot over phone, mails. We were very close and always used to pamper each other but we were not sure whether we were in love.Suddenly she started ignoring me. I was bit upset this time and we had fight on my Bday. After a week, one of our common friend informed me that she is interested in a guy who will cheat her and gave me proof of that and asked me not to tell her who informed me. This friend of mine is very nice and trustworthy so I didn't want his name to come in between. I informed my friend abt the guy who wants to cheat her and it seems she was never interested in him. she got annoyed .. now I cant tell her who told me this as I promised our common friend .. and then she really was pissed thinking I was blaming other guy unnecessarily .. I did not wanted to lose her and I propsed her. Since then we r not tallking properly. Only way I can think is explaining her everything but our common friend will b in trouble big time. Help

Answer 1

This has less to do with this specific situation and more to do with your relationship with her. What was the one underlining reason why you and her broke paths? It seems it might had to do with you wanting more of a relationship and her ether wanting it to stay the same are she want'd less. Ether way you might be fighting a loss cause, more it would seem, because you don't know how to keep the relationship the way she would feel happy about it... I guess.... But talk to your other friend if you want and explain that maybe you need to bring his name up to save your butt... if he doesn't want you to then maybe you need to accept that the connection is over... if he does maybe then explaining a little more might help, but then again I don't know all the details of you and hers relationship.... usually little things like this can blow over, if they don't then it usually a good sign that she isn't even trying to work a relationship with you... time to wash your hands...